Is this behavior needy?
Whenever I talk to a woman (over text, IM, FB. Not in person), if there is a break in the conversation from her side for example if she doesn't reply for around 10 - 15 minutes, I send out something like 'U there'. This usually gets a response from them. But I wanted to know if this behavior was needy.
Also as a background, I never talk to them every time. If the conversation is good I usually wait for a day and then again initiate the conversation . If the conversation is not so good like if there is a break in the conversation from her side, I usually wait many days before initiating. So in the sense of initiating a conversation , I'm not needy. I have it well calibrated depending on the response I have got. Also I can engage even a very cold woman very well because of my cocky and funny humor and also on the range of topics on which I can talk and simulate them.
My only concern is my behavior of asking 'U there' when there is a break from her side. Also I do it only once in a particular conversation . I ask them like that so that I want to know whether they are still there else I wont waste any time on it. If she doesn't reply I don't ask her again, until she replies.
Please give your views on whether I should change it.