Girl Likes Me - But Has Bf ?? I'm Confused !!

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    Girl Likes Me - But Has Bf ?? I'm Confused !!

    i met a jap girl one day and is very interested in me. the next day i took her out to a club. as i was kino excalated, she stopped and said that she has a bf. i was surprised since she showed great interest in me since the 1st day we met. i then asked her why she was with me if she had a bf. she replied, "i dont know".. later on. i lightly kino escalated. but i didnt kiss. i asked her if she wants to go out with me next week.. she said yes. i'm confused. why would she go out wiht me if she has a bf? whats wrong with this idiot?



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    I think it was a shit test to see if you would push through or back down.

    I think, from her reaction, that you handled it well. So, go out with her next week and carry on like she never mentioned the bf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by d_downs View Post
    I think it was a shit test to see if you would push through or back down.

    I think, from her reaction, that you handled it well. So, go out with her next week and carry on like she never mentioned the bf.
    hey d_downs.. thanks for the reply. i hope youre right.. but do you think that if i hadnt backed down, that is, kept kinoing her, that i wouldve failed her shit test?

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    Potentially. She may have seen you as a dude who isn't capable of going after what he wants. A lot of girls say they bfs when they don't just to get guys to back off or screw with their heads. It's like a self cockblock if you will.

    p.s. If she's telling the truth (not sure how you'd find out), then thread softly and know that she will not be LTR potential.

  5. Use the Boyfriend Breaker method, one of the most successful methods ever.

  6. Girl: I have a boyfriend
    You: Yeah? Me too, I bet mine's cuter.

    She will usually laugh, and than you continue the conversation as if she hadn't said anything. I don't know where I heard this, but it's always been money for me. Maybe it'll be money for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vrooom View Post
    Use the Boyfriend Breaker method, one of the most successful methods ever.
    i'll check it out.. thanks.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gunslinger01 View Post
    Girl: I have a boyfriend
    You: Yeah? Me too, I bet mine's cuter.

    She will usually laugh, and than you continue the conversation as if she hadn't said anything. I don't know where I heard this, but it's always been money for me. Maybe it'll be money for you.
    sounds good.. but dont you think that using this will make her think that youre gay? i tried this on a couple of girls before and they thought i was gay, even though we were joking about it.

  8. I've never had that issue. It's worked well for me. It's all in the delivery, my friend.

  9. Alternatively, you could use this as a reference:

    Originally Posted by DaKingpin23
    Me: You've proven you're cool enough... We should hang out sometime..
    Her: But I have a boyfriend ..
    Me: So, I'll pick you up at 8, wear something sexy

    Honestly, the best way to past a shit test is by complete ignoring it. If the situation is such that you CAN'T ignore it then simply agree and exaggerate or flip it around:

    Girl: Are you gay?
    Me: Are YOU gay?

    Girl: Are you drunk?
    Me: You want me to be honest?... I've had exactly 157 beers in the 10 minutes I've been here.. And let me tell you, with each beer a lot of these girls are starting to look better!

    Girl: That shirt looks ugly!
    Me: Thank you!

    Etc Etc. I know those are "easy/small ones" but the same technique applies for all shit tests so it doesn't matter how big or small. Originally Posted by DaKingpin23
    Me: You've proven you're cool enough... We should hang out sometime..
    Her: But I have a boyfriend ..
    Me: So, I'll pick you up at 8, wear something sexy

    Honestly, the best way to past a shit test is by complete ignoring it. If the situation is such that you CAN'T ignore it then simply agree and exaggerate or flip it around:

    Girl: Are you gay?
    Me: Are YOU gay?

    Girl: Are you drunk?
    Me: You want me to be honest?... I've had exactly 157 beers in the 10 minutes I've been here.. And let me tell you, with each beer a lot of these girls are starting to look better!

    Girl: That shirt looks ugly!
    Me: Thank you!

    Etc Etc. I know those are "easy/small ones" but the same technique applies for all shit tests so it doesn't matter how big or small.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gunslinger01 View Post
    Alternatively, you could use this as a reference:
    Hey gunslinger.. thanks for the reframes.. i know theyll come in handy. if you got more, dont hesitate to add them to the thread.. thanks again man.

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