I feel like I'm just not in control of the situation. When she responds, it's incredibly positive but it's almost a few hours to a day later to my communication. I don't get it. On our Day 2 we had a great time and she even mentioned at the end of the date that we should definitely do it again. Fast forward to now. I call her on Sunday, she doesn't respond so I sent her a text last night saying:
How to turn the tables on a girl that's got me waiting?
Me: "I forgot are we fighting and more importantly am I winning?"
Her: "What?! You are such a dork! Sorry, been busy entertaining friends - but got your message and can do Wed "
So today I responded with:
Me: "No worries. I still have Wed open so I'll have my interns pencil you in ;-). How do you feel about Thai food? Press 1 for yes, 2 for hell yesss!"
And thus far she hasn't responded. I get the distinct feeling I won't even hear back from her until tomorrow. I don't want to seem like I'm always available for her though, I want her to know if she's gonna treat me like a backup option than I'll treat her the same way. Obviously calling her out on it outright is not the way to go and I don't plan on doing that. However, I was thinking that if she doesn't respond by tonight I'll tell her tomorrow (when she inevitably responds) that I made other plans because I didn't hear back from her and offer to reschedule another time. Have any of you guys tried something like this? Does it work, or am I just going to kill the attraction here?