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    The Ultimate 'Shit-Tests' Thread

    A lot of guys tend to FAIL a woman's "shit tests." And as a result, he can't get past a certain point with her.

    So, in this thread, I (and you) will give personal examples of how to PASS a woman's shit tests, to get what you want.

    Earlier today, a girl online tried to shit test ME when I asked for her number (even though SHE'S the one who initiated our communication).

    When I first asked, "Do you text?" She replied with "Yes. I do." (shit test #1)

    My Reply: "I'm assuming you know what's supposed to come next. But I'll wait & let you figure it out just in case lol."

    Her 2nd shit test: "Lol umm yeah I don't give out my number like that >give me yur number? If I'm interested ill txt u"

    At this point, I had three choices:

    A) Not play into her bullshit at all and give up.
    B) Do exactly what she asked of me and be total AFC.
    C) Counteract her shit test and get what I wanted out of her.

    I chose Option C. This is how it went...

    Me: "lol, that's cute. You do realize that if you send me a text, I'd have your number anyway though, right?

    Besides, if you weren't interested, you wouldn't have messaged me to begin with. So how about we stop playing games here, and act like adults, since that's what we are. We're both on here to meet people, so let's not pretend otherwise. What's your #?"

    Her: "Interesting... I like >419******* text me"


    If you have any tips you'd like to share, SHARE THEM! This is to help ANYBODY who may come across a common shit test.



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    oh i got some

    I walk up to a 2-set.... Hi how are you
    They:

    a) Look at each other and laugh
    b) Make a disgusted :wtf?: face and turn away
    c) hold up their hand in a "stop" position, or wag their finger, and turn their backs

    choose any one

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    Well, the IDEA was to actually post situations ALONG with SOLUTIONS to the problems LOL. I didn't see it as a "post your problem and we'll solve it" thread. LOL

    *HOWEVER*

    If anyone wants to answer, they should feel free.

    Me, PERSONALLY, I don't see most women doing the things you mentioned unless they are just TOTAL bitches.

    Has this actually happened to you before?

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    why, yes, all the time, usually when I talk to pretty girls (or not-so-pretty girls who have more attitude than they rightfully should).. they know im trying to hit on them, just like every other guy in the venue, and since I'm not handsome or tall myself (why would i be here if i was?), and thus have nothing to offer them, they shut me down immediately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rellik View Post
    why, yes, all the time, usually when I talk to pretty girls (or not-so-pretty girls who have more attitude than they rightfully should).. they know im trying to hit on them, just like every other guy in the venue, and since I'm not handsome or tall myself (why would i be here if i was?), and thus have nothing to offer them, they shut me down immediately.
    To improve your GAME, man. It's not all about being handsome.

    Lots of women find ME attractive, but it STILL didn't make me APPROACH. I figured women would assume I was like every other guy trying to talk to them and shut me down before I even opened up my mouth. Even when I approached EASILY and got numbers, I'd still be afraid to do it the NEXT time I went out. Nothing to do with looks, man. It's all about inner game and confidence. And in some cases, I STILL struggle with it.

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    Just now.

    Me: Hah yeah Lauren? The rapist and pre med detective. Let's make a tv show. I'll keep our earnings, you can cook me breakfast in bed. And you get a massage and hug for free every day.
    Her: who do you think i am? you're going to be the bitch in this relationship not me sir.
    Me: IDK what type of relationships you get into but mine don't have bitches in them.
    Her: Touche. I'll second that.


    Hahaha.

    PS, adding to what QualityGame is saying. I'm an attractive guy (I model and get told all the time), but that doesn't mean much other than getting looks and occasionally being opened or have girls orbit around me waiting for me to open them. But it doesn't help me that much. There are certain days where I still feel very insecure and don't feel like I can get any girl. It happens. Looks don't mean much.
    "You are literally too stupid to insult" "Thank you".

    Oh, by the way, did I mention I'm awesome?

    I am writing my life to laugh at myself. And I am succeeding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bearing View Post
    Just now.

    Me: Hah yeah Lauren? The rapist and pre med detective. Let's make a tv show. I'll keep our earnings, you can cook me breakfast in bed. And you get a massage and hug for free every day.
    Her: who do you think i am? you're going to be the bitch in this relationship not me sir.
    Me: IDK what type of relationships you get into but mine don't have bitches in them.
    Her: Touche. I'll second that.
    GREAT! That was the PERFECT way to flip it (and get OUT of it) before you got into the whole "who's the bitch in the relationship" battle.


    PS, adding to what QualityGame is saying. I'm an attractive guy (I model and get told all the time), but that doesn't mean much other than getting looks and occasionally being opened or have girls orbit around me waiting for me to open them. But it doesn't help me that much. There are certain days where I still feel very insecure and don't feel like I can get any girl. It happens. Looks don't mean much.
    EXACTLY! Even if women see you and find you attractive, it means NOTHING unless a conversation follows soon after. Otherwise, you're just the "hot guy" in her "There was this one really hot guy there, but other than that, the place sucked" story that she tells her girlfriend later on.

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    Touché Quality. I wanna hear more, this thread can be great, real life examples of GOOD reframes. Or if not so good we can assist in the debacles of which we call shit tests.
    Last edited by Bearing; 12-07-2010 at 09:54 PM. Reason: Damn iPhone autocorrecting my spelling
    "You are literally too stupid to insult" "Thank you".

    Oh, by the way, did I mention I'm awesome?

    I am writing my life to laugh at myself. And I am succeeding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bearing View Post
    Touché Quality. I wanna hear more, this thread can be great, real life examples of GOOD reframes. Or if not so good we can assist in the debacles of which we call shit tests.
    Yep. I'm cool with either one. I just hope others join us. As this can help ALOTTTTTTA people, if they run into these problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by QualityGame View Post
    To improve your GAME, man. It's not all about being handsome.

    Lots of women find ME attractive, but it STILL didn't make me APPROACH. I figured women would assume I was like every other guy trying to talk to them and shut me down before I even opened up my mouth. Even when I approached EASILY and got numbers, I'd still be afraid to do it the NEXT time I went out. Nothing to do with looks, man. It's all about inner game and confidence. And in some cases, I STILL struggle with it.
    Quote Originally Posted by Bearing View Post

    PS, adding to what QualityGame is saying. I'm an attractive guy (I model and get told all the time), but that doesn't mean much other than getting looks and occasionally being opened or have girls orbit around me waiting for me to open them. But it doesn't help me that much. There are certain days where I still feel very insecure and don't feel like I can get any girl. It happens. Looks don't mean much.
    LOL. You guys are ridiculous, if girls thought I was attractive or if I was a bonafide freakin' model (!) I would be having such a blast right now. Thats what I hate the most, guys that waste their looks and/or height and act like pussies... no excuse. All they need is a drink or just a larger set of balls to go approach and they'll be getting laid 10x more with 10x hotter girls than an ugly guy with the tightest game.... you think you have approach anxiety now? Imagine your mental state after you get rejected, blown out, flaked on 100s of times. BS all you want here, but I'd bet any amount of money that you would not trade into an ugly/short or even average looking guys body even if it got you all the knowledge and 'inner game' of mystery, style, savoy, and every other guru in the word combined.

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