How to tell if she's not interested VS interested but wants you to chase her?

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    How to tell if she's not interested VS interested but wants you to chase her?

    Anyone? It's really hard to tell unless she makes an obvious sign of disinterest.



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    Get her to qualify herself to you, subtly if you're very unsure which it is.

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    You're in the zone where most people who start out are.
    It works like this. If she makes no obvious signs of INTEREST, she's not interested.->Period (And not the other way around)
    "Psychology is an essential ingredient so that logic dominates emotions, and the human dominates the animal"

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    ^Period? As in no girl in the history of the universe has ever been interested in a guy without making obvious signs of interest? I doubt that. Usually kino tests and just seeing how she responds to you can indicate whether she's interested.

    I dunno what the question was asking specifically though. Provide the context? You mean like at a party where she'll leave the interaction and you're wondering if she's doing it to see if you chase her or not? People at parties tend to circulate and certainly some girls might roll off because the interaction is dying down or to even actively game you (it's generally better if you roll off first) or because she actually genuinely has something she has to do (urinate, grab more alcohol, talk to her friend about what do since she's so insanly obsessed with you, who know right?), but it's not necessarily an indication of disinterest.

    If you apply kino or make a SOI/suggestive comments and she rolls off really quickly after, that is probably a sign of disinterest.

    The only way to tell otherwise is to reengage. Don't follow her immediately though (unless she invites you or something like that). Go mingle and then reengage would be my advice. Or you could just stand be in her periphery and see if she reengage but even if she does its not a definite sign of *sexual* interest (as she might just be being friendly).

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    Did you mean IOIs such as a girl touching her hair being an obvious sign of interest though? I guess in that case I'd probably agree with you, but light iois like that aren't obvious indicators of interest. Girls touch/play with their hair all the time, not necessarily an ioi.

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    I'm actually referring to messaging a girl, but I guess it could be a reference to anything. I've had girls who didn't respond to a message for three weeks who ended up hooking up with me BUT I've had girls who responded to my messages immediately yet would rather die than have sex with me. So it's hard to tell what my chances are.

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    Message more girls and make yourself the prize. You should really do a shit load of real life appraoches, then online gaming will become easy along with texting. There should be some interviews of making yourself the prize or it should be on MB.

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    I am having the same problem as you man. I really cant figure out this girl that Im trying to talk to. I wish I could help or give advice but I need some just as bad. Girls are so confusing. This girl hasnt made any signs of disinterest. I asked her for ice cream, she said maybe. I havent brought up anything about hanging out again. I talked to her on FB and she told me to text her. Soo im assuming she still would talk to me.

    Sorry I cant help you broham. Dont know what to think heres my thread if you were interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by singlelife4life View Post
    I am having the same problem as you man. I really cant figure out this girl that Im trying to talk to. I wish I could help or give advice but I need some just as bad. Girls are so confusing. This girl hasnt made any signs of disinterest. I asked her for ice cream, she said maybe. I havent brought up anything about hanging out again. I talked to her on FB and she told me to text her. Soo im assuming she still would talk to me.

    Sorry I cant help you broham. Dont know what to think heres my thread if you were interested.
    I say you should game more girls and get more experience and go on more dates. Put this chick to once a week, and bring in more chicks.

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