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    How do you know if you are good looking

    I'm confused, this year has been the year I have really been taking care of looks and stuff and I think I have reached my full potential in terms of looks and dress/style etc. I just dont know if im good looking, when I look in the mirror I see a sexy male model, but when I see pictures or videos of myself I see a ugly skinny hunchback loser. What are some hints I can take to see if Im good looking. My friend says that if girls look at you then you are good looking. I see girls look at me sometimes on the train, but when I look at them they keep reading or whatever and dont look at me again. Does this mean I'm average? I would imagine a girl would keep trying to look at a good looking guy. My friend also said, if a girl blushes and smiles when she looks at you, I have never had that happen. I'm not posting a pic, so dont say anything about it. But how do you know if your good looking, and please dont give me that looks dont matter stuff, I know its all true but I really just wanna focus on physical aspects. I just dont know whether I am facially good looking, what are some things that good looking people go through in their life that makes them know they are good looking. My friends are all homophobic so they would never tell me I am good looking, and I dont have any friends that are girls so I cant ask them.



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    Quote Originally Posted by London2012 View Post
    My friends are all homophobic and I dont have any friends that are girls so I cant ask them.
    mate i would focus more on getting some new friends for now...

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    Put your pic up on rating sites like hotornot.com . Upload different pics in different kind of situations cause a picture can be really subjective. When I tested it my best was an 8.6 if I remember correctly. My worst was a 5 or so . If you can score 9 or higher with multiple pics you're goodlooking. I think you're average if you score like me. If you consistenly score 8 or higher you're probably fairly good looking too.
    For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him.
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    Bro...your looks don't matter as much as you think they do. I WOULD NOT do the hot or not thing...if it's not a high scoring pic...it's gonna kill your confidence. What IS attractive is confidence and sexuality. It's called being the alpha male. Girls REALLY do dig that shit! So, stand up straight, keep yourself well groomed and focus on your attributes. It will all come together.
    Confidence comes with experience. It's unlikely that you'll be good at something the 1st time or even the first 50 times you try it. That is what becoming an expert is all about. Comfort with the routine, learning from your mistakes and picking up on subtle cues of how you are progressing.

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    If you can't handle the results of the hotornot thing then indeed you're better off assuming you're attractive and never wonder about it again. No point in this thread then either. For some people the results might be higher than they expect and they'll be doing themselves a favour. For others it will be the other way around.

    In the end it matters jack shit. Try to be your best looking self by fashion and grooming and shit. The other looks factors are beyond your control (unless you're considering plastic surgery) and it's a waste of time and energy to think about it.
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    Also don't underestimate the culture aspects. In europe for example where I live it is very uncommon for a woman to come up to you and say you are good looking or when having a conversation with a girl in a club/bar to tell you that you are good looking. There is a certain social barrier which makes it hard to confess to someone that they look good.

    But in Asia for example I would have strangers coming up to me in bars, clubs, restaurants, the street etc. and tell me how good looking I am. Some would even want to touch my face and take pictures of me. (Both men and women)

    Personally I think I am a good looking guy and know what aspects of my face and body are very attractive. Asian women will tell me these points are attractive as well while in Europe hardly anybody will tell me this besides really blunt and obnoxious girls who just don't give a shit.

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    You'll know by how other people react or if they compliment on looks. I often get complimented and was always a popular good looking kid in school I have been in modeling for a while now too and I'll tell you the truth I often look at pics of me and go..." the hell I look like some 16 year old twig." or I'll think " I look deformed. Truthfully a lot of people don't work well with cameras. I don't always unless they are professionally taken. Don't let pictures bring you down. They are a confidence killer often.

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    Quote Originally Posted by retoke View Post
    Put your pic up on rating sites like hotornot.com . Upload different pics in different kind of situations cause a picture can be really subjective.
    ^ Just do this.

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    The fact that you even ask this question tells me a lot about you. Deep, I know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vapor View Post
    ^ Just do this.
    I dont know if I want to know the truth lol, what if I'm not that good looking it would really bring the confidence I have left down to level 0.

    Quote Originally Posted by ZachE84 View Post
    The fact that you even ask this question tells me a lot about you. Deep, I know.
    What exactly does it tell you about me?

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