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in my experience, being single is ...
Does being single means: dating "women with problems" ?
in my experience, being single is dating girls who have father issues, problems in their houses, self-estime problems, etc.
all of the girls i have had sex with are problematic girls with lot of issues. i mean, quality girls that i have met are looking for something serious, and they wont have a relationship with me because they say that they dont want to be just one of my another conquests.
im getting tired of just dating the sluts, girls with problems, dumb girls etc. are single women always like that? or do you know from your experience single girls that have their sh*t together and are still just looking for something of one night?
i have to say that i have just dated and gamed 18-19 years old girls, im not good with older girls.
im approaching the game with a wrong perspective? or what is going on? i dont know if i could express my point.
This is where you should be asking questions about her past, how she grew up etc... Try and find red flags that would make you think otherwise next time around.
your 19. These types of girls are most common in there LATER years who have gone thru a rough divorce, abuse, single moms, rape, child problems etc... for an 18/19 yr old you just have bad luck.
Try dating girls your not normally attracted to. There might be something about the girls your into that might be causing you togo for these types of women.
Although if girls go thru extended periods of treatment and get help for there problems it can darastically change there lifestyle. Ones who don't are usually still wounded and scarred from there past.
I'm your age but I'm going to college so there are more quality chicks there. Where are you going to game these girls? And why aren't you good with older girls? the same thing that attracts an 19 year old attracts a 29 year old. Whenever i game a girl that's older than me i just say in a joking manner "yeah but I'm more mature than you so it balances itself out" and leave it at that. It won't be an issue if you don't make it one.
19 old girl is like leaf on the wind.
30-40+ - like branch on hurricane.
Still - you begin with top of iceberg. Much more to come ... Long life in front of you.
Whether you're a boyfriend, a husband, or a father, you realize one thing - men have different way of getting how they feel out than women do. Guys will take it on the field, bash drums and guitars, wrestle each other. Women will do it on a more social "civilized" level, but they have this effective way of getting under your skin and into your head.
Also, you're dealing with girls, not women. They might look like women and talk a good game about being worldly, but their actions are still pretty juvenile and impulsive.
If I was to say when this changes for women, prob. when they've been in a couple of real relationships. Mid 20s, maybe a little older. High school romances don't count unless they go on for years out of school and real thought is being put into having a family. Fairly rare though.
Women say they might want things to be serious, they might say they want relationships before sex, but ask anyone here, and they'll tell you the girls broke their rules and fell for them... and sometimes they might behave at home, but when they go off with friends or cousins on a spring break or vacation, they could wind up being the complete opposite and behave wildly and out of control. Not necc. hooking up, but just bad behavior they wouldn't do at home in case people they knew saw them.
Keep at it and roll with it, because you'll get better at dealing with it.
Originally Posted by diegoturner
haha and i was thinking this was just at this age. i didnt realize that it will get more complicated with the time.
Originally Posted by returner308
maybe its the city, maybe i have been at the wrong places, or i choose the wrong girls. maybe im the problem, and by some way i tend to be attracted to girls with problems. who knows. i will try your advices
Heh, it just gets worse with age. By the very fact that they are still single, the older women get the higher the likelihood that they will have some kind of baggage. It is just the way it is.
As I like to put it, ALL women are some flavor of "crazy", the trick is finding one who's flavor is one that you can tolerate or fits with your flavor (cuz us dudes have issues too whether we like to admit it or not).
For you, you are still running into women that have the social stigma of "being a slut" in their mind, the older they get the more you will start running into women that have decided there is nothing wrong with getting laid if that's what they (and you) want.
they're all crazy in some way. we all have problems. if you work on your own issues successfully you'll have some protection from the craziness because you'll understand it better, i find.
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