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    Is this the right attitude?

    I have a girl in my social circle, and granted shes cute, and because of that who wouldnt want to fuck her?

    My social circle game is bad anyway, and I want to improve it so that one day if my future wife does visit my social circle, I can seduce her better.

    So this girl is just a pawn to play with...in other words, practice.

    Is this the right attitude to have with picking up girls in general or in social circle game? Or am I being too degrading of women?

    I ask because I'm trying to learn to get my mindset right as I go down this path.



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    Nope, not the right attitude or mindset, you are trying to interact with people, not cardboard. No, thinking of them as "pawns" is not a good thing and...

    Well, I could go on, but first a quick question: Have you studied, read, or researched anything about the game?

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    Better mindset: You have girls in your social circle because you enjoy their company and like spending time with them as friends, not because you have an external agenda.

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    Well, I could go on, but first a quick question: Have you studied, read, or researched anything about the game?
    I've read magic bullets, Double your dating, and studied a few other things, a long time ago. Now I just go out in the field much more. I do more day game on strangers and my mindset is "Here is a hottie, lets meet her, see if I can learn something and improve my skills further after doing this set."

    And I was not sure if should apply the learning frame or practice mindset to social circle.

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    The "game" is human interaction. If you wish to look at peoples as pawns or practice toys then get ready to be upset when things don't go your way. Create genuine magnetism.
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    "Future wife"?

    Wow!

    Dude, nobody is your future wife, or even a potential to be a wife UNLESS you've gotten to know her for a long time.

    Just get the whole mentality of looking for a wife out of your head for now.
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