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She has a boyfriend, but flirts. Whats her deal?
At work there is this girl. We have become decent friends. She comes to talk to me during work and will talk for a while. we walk out together. she touches me here and there. ( pinch, pat, push).. i really like her.. but she has a boyfriend. she doesnt mention him much but they have been dating for 3-4 years. then tonight i saw on her myspace saying how much she loved him... so whats her deal? chances are she isnt interested in me, but idk, when we talk she is always happy 2 talk to me. and always coming to see me... what do u think? thanks
( she isnt the type of girl who would look for attention or use somone. she is very very nice/sweet. she isnt like this with any other co-worker and when she seems me, she comes over. i know its wrong to interfere if she has a bf, i dont plan too. but she is probably just being flirty/friendly. i do know they argue. she told me she was annoyed the other night because of him...idk. its aggrivating because we get along really well and have a lot of chemistry)
well, you can persue her. you can do whatever it is you want to do. but keep in mind, you can end up getting too crazy for her and getting hurt in the end because she might not fall for you and stay with her boyfriend.
Originally Posted by letsgetgoin28
But, it is posable she IS into you. My previous ex had a boyfriend whom she said she loved and would marry. BUT, we did the same thing as you. we walked all the time together when i would see her at the gym. And we would talk and i got a few ioi's. Than we would start texting. so if you dont have her number now, get it. and text her quite a bit. be a constant part of her life so she gets used to you and forgets about her boyfriend. My ex, who had a bf broke up with him, got back together the next day saying how much she loved him, than i gamed her a little more, next day she broke up with him for good, and we started doing the naughty. and ended up in a relationship.
you are getting good signs. But, only go after her if you really like her, because i would assume her bf likes her and you wouldnt want someone to take your girl away. Do it if you only have the best interest in mind.
Thanks! Yes i do really like her. I was feeling good about the situation until her message saying how much she loved him ( unless he put it up)
Originally Posted by iSargeHer
, text her everyday? i dont want to be annoying... i text her last night and we went back and forth a little. but i dont want to text her everyday and annoy her and what do i text her about? make stuff up?! lol
oh ok so shes doesnt work with you.
Are you sure the "5 years" isnt some kind of exagerated shit test? maybe they were off and on for five years or maybe shes lying or not how well do you know her?
on having to choose you instead of him-"well you have to, im in control of the radio here and my coworkers are gonna flip shit if you leave cuz then im gonna have to change the station permanently or else the songs only gonna remind me of you, and they LOVE this station... you are SO that other woman..turning me against my coworkers like that."
i really struggled with this one its not very funny so id only use it in comfort which it sounds like your there but w/e
i know its 5 years.. if its been on/off, i have no idea.. we are in the comfort zone. she has started calling me a @s* and loser hahah.. little insults. i bust her chops 2. so we are in the comfort zone.
Originally Posted by megamanV
This is a great situation. She's been with the guy for five long years, so at some point she will let you know that they're "taking time apart" or "on a break." This is when you pounce because in her mind she's no longer exclusive so it will not be considered "cheating."
Dealing with co workers is a big no
think before you do it
if things go wrong, you still have to see each others face every day
girls flirt because it makes them feel good, they look for attention all the time
i recommend you to be careful
i go back to school in september. we dont work directly with each other so thats not a problem. and we are a long way from dating too. she still has a boyfriend..i just feel this isnt the type of girl who does it for attention. she has that very sweet/nice personality.
Originally Posted by assman2010
I've had friends who are super flirty with me but have boyfriends. Don't be all weird about it. Date other women instead.
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