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    is it too early to run text qualifiers?

    So i was at a club with my wingman. spotted a group of girls hb9, hb7 and we dance with them.. i end up gaming hb9 for a while and get a number close. my wing wasnt as sucesfull... the problem was when i tried qualifying her asking her "tell me something cool about yourself" she started this whole story about how she's a vampire and random shit like that. we just ended up dancing a bit but i had to go to a dinner party later so i had to leave the club. i made sure to save my number on her phone and all.

    the next day this is how the text went

    pua: hey miss vampire. i just made you open your phone for no reason, looks like i have you in check :P

    hb9: lol wow. very clever.
    pua: i feel like its not as clever as your evil plan to seduce me and turn me into a vampire as well.
    hb9: this is true. defenitly not as clever
    pua: where you able to improve your dance moves from a 2/10. personally i would have enlisted the help from one of the stage show girls (inside joke)
    hb9: haha no, i guess i just dont care that much

    from there i went dead air, waited a few hours and then called... i got no answer and i left a " hi its ron, u can call me back message"

    i waited 2 days and then i reopened
    pua:hey is (hb9's name) a good name for a baby girl?
    Hb9: id like to think so.
    Hb9: (double text) Hi
    pua: well when i was at the club saturday, one of my hoes got pregnant on the job and being a good pimp that i am, i decided to name the baby haha (me being a pimp is a role play from the club)
    hb9: oh.... awesome
    pua: haha im glad we agreed on the name. other then your super awesome vampire powers, tell me something cool about yourself?

    she usually replies very quickly and its already been around 5 hours with no reply... according to mehows book i should give her a call anyways tonight but i feel like thats a bad idea cause i had the last word with a question with out a response. Did i not run enough attraction over text to start asking qualifiers? where should i go next? should i wait 2 days to open again and then continuously run attraction? any good openers i can use? also if i do call tonight is it recomended taht i text before someting like .. "im off to the gym but if im not too busy delivering my hoes baby haha, i might give you a call"

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    i dont know why but i never seemed to like the "i just made you open your phone" line. never got good results for me. but anyways, it doesn't seem like she's that interested but if you wanted to pursue it you could always suggest a hangout with some of your male friends. make it something that's a mutual interest to both of you. if she flakes then move on. hope that helps

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    also, too much callback humor and qualifiers are good date questions but not text questions. i noticed that you asked her the same qualifier twice. bad news. keep it interesting and try tossing funny stories of things that happened to you or "happened" to you during the day. being playful is ideal for escalation so try to be playful in your conversation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Techtonik View Post
    also, too much callback humor and qualifiers are good date questions but not text questions. i noticed that you asked her the same qualifier twice. bad news. keep it interesting and try tossing funny stories of things that happened to you or "happened" to you during the day. being playful is ideal for escalation so try to be playful in your conversation.
    thanks for the fast reply... would you agree that its a bad idea to give her a call tonight? if she doesnt answer, that would be another "no" mental block in her head which would be bad news for me. i feel like its too early to ask for a hangout cause i still need to build up some comfort.. should i reopen with something funny that happened during the day in a few days?

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    when i game a girl, i don't text to initiate. i call. this is one of those situations where it would have helped. the reason i call after meeting a girl instead of texting is that it gets her comfortable with answering my calls. it could be a 2 minute convo before you have to go and get back with your friends, but this way she's familiar with you calling her. also, yea i would say something like "the funniest thing happened to me and it totally reminded me of you" then tell your story and the part that reminded you of her should be something that teases her or disqualifies her.

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    Re: is it too early to run text qualifiers?

    shes just answering questions buddy she is not investing at all. by asking you questions

    seems to me honestly she's just being nice to a guy she gave her number to but bores of you then dismisses you by not replying back.

    sounds like she will flake a lot my friend.

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