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...you don't need to do anything ...
What would you do if I told you that...
...you don't need to do anything to create attraction?
You don't have to tell stories, you don't have to "dhv", you don't have to make her laugh, you don't have to be "alpha", you don't have to be the center of attention, you don't have to be the entertainer.
If you are worrying about what to say or what to text her in order to "create attraction" then you are doomed to failure.
Millions of people around the world are getting laid without any of this "theories" and "techniques".
All this stuff is going to mess up with your head.
If you like a girl, go for it, show interest, escalate physically, be persistent.
The problem isn't showing interest. The problem is showing neediness. Two very different things.
so you are here why then?
Originally Posted by muggzy
"Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are. That is the difference between the sexes." Oscar Wilde
Originally Posted by CMPitts
You make some good points. I do think that people need this material to help them though.
Natural is defiently the way to go, but it's hard to know everything and resources you find on this site push you in the right direction. Before I knew about the game I would consider myself half a natural, what I mean is I had no problem getting attraction but I could not close. I would leave it to long and not make a move or would get friend zoned.
Through this site I found where I was going wrong and how to improve.Bad habits are hard to correct and I am still not getting as much success as I would like but I am defiently seeing improvement and without reading the material I would still be stuck where I was before.
A certain percentage of girls will be attracted to you regardless of what you say, and all you have to do is screw it up. That's why I now try to get a girl to qualify herself very early in an interaction. If she does, then screw the attraction phase. but "being persistent" will not turn girls who are not interested around.
You said people are getting laid without any of these theories and techniques, and then go on to say you should "show interest, escalate physically, be persistent.". Those are techniques, specifically techniques that are taught here.
Originally Posted by Luminaria
You haven't thought long enough or deeply enough about what it takes for a loser type of guy to make a transformation into a naturally attractive person that attracts girls. What you're saying here would be like Michael Jordan telling a bunch of young kids to not worry about technique and form but instead just clear your mind, play and score a bunch of baskets. That method works for him because he already has the techniques ingrained into him, but others who don't have it will need to study first..then they won't have to think about it.
Everyones an expert--few are experienced.
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Originally Posted by Ackustic
Originally Posted by HoNLeX
Originally Posted by Luminaria
Welcome to 2008.
What you're saying has been known for a while now dude. I'm not sure what you're point is.
I have the feeling that the original poster is just a troll, i.e. posting something controversial and then laughing about the replies.
You dont need to do anything to get attraction oh boy oh boy. I wonder how much field experience this master has.
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