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    cajun body language + my high energy= questions

    my energy is like jim carrey. im like everywhere. thats without me drinking. i flirt with girls and usually when the hot girls check me out i lock up. so im doing cajun advanced body language. the problem is i have to turn my energy off to poeticize my presence. my movements are slow like underwater now, believe that i am a spectacle to be witnessed.. now i am getting looks. the problem is when i start a conversation its makes me think before i speak. that paralyzes me. cajun said be carefree u dont want or need anything, most comfortable than anyone else but when im trying to go for that outcome i dont know what to say. its like my high energy is going crazy inside me and wants push pull tease the girl. with this energy i feel restricted. i dont know how cajun did the body language and still have a relaxed energy vibe on keys to the vip episode. any tips?



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    i guess what im trying to ask is how to be outgoing when ur focused on body language? how do u put urself out there?

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    You have to internalize the body language until it's just you. It takes time. Just keep on keepin' on. It'll take a lil bit for the body language to be an unbreakable habit that you don't consciously think about.

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    Dude I have high energy body language, I have mad ADHD.

    Look at Russell Brand, he has massive quantities of jittery movements. All of that is cool in attraction, the only time you gotta chill and act slower is when you're trying to get sexual. Or at least thats only when I do it, when we are 1-1 I'm still making her laugh but obviously not as wild as when I'm running a whole group.

    Find game that suits you. I could never run Cajun's game. I fuck hot girls being ADHD. You don't HAVE to be chill. Braddock and Fader and Future apparently get laid by hot girls and run high energy game.
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    I'm high-energy and half Italian, so when I talk and move my actions are all over left field.

    I agree with Amorphous. You can still have your high-energy out of the gate, which is great because that's the real you, but you just have to be more aware of how you use it. Harness that energy. Big energy to create attraction and wind down when approaching comfort.

    The last date I was on was just walking all around San Francisco and when the girl I was with kept on commenting about my large and comical body movements. We were sitting and I told her about my Italianess and how I probably couldn't talk without moving my hands. Next thing you know she grabs my hands and puts them between her thighs. Guess what? The mood shifted and I calmed the fuck down. Your body will naturally want to get all hot with the sexiness and less with the, "I once caught a fish THIS BIG" stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amorphous View Post
    Dude I have high energy body language, I have mad ADHD.

    Look at Russell Brand, he has massive quantities of jittery movements. All of that is cool in attraction, the only time you gotta chill and act slower is when you're trying to get sexual. Or at least thats only when I do it, when we are 1-1 I'm still making her laugh but obviously not as wild as when I'm running a whole group.

    Find game that suits you. I could never run Cajun's game. I fuck hot girls being ADHD. You don't HAVE to be chill. Braddock and Fader and Future apparently get laid by hot girls and run high energy game.
    Exactly I am the same way,

    I beleive it works to my advantage being quick and high energy. That energy will be sensed thru the chicks and will increase their energy. Also by being quick witted and talkative you are able to control the set better by not giving someone time to amog you or to have awkward silences.

    My energy works great at wild parties where you can bounce around and open sets without hesitation. I love it!

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