I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks, I liked her as a friend (I like talking to her, hanging out with her, having sex with her, and it seemed like she would definitely have been potential relationship material), and judging by the way she acted I assumed she was in the same boat, if not even more into me than I was into her.
She wants to be fuck buddies?
We have a date scheduled for this past weekend, day/time are set and I'm excited because we have something pretty fun planned. I'm picking her up at 11. I text her around 10, and she says she decided to go out with her girlfriends instead and she won't make it. Of course everyone hates people who cancel at the last second, and everyone hates people who cancel at the last second and don't even feel the need to notify you even more. She's only the second girl I've met like this and I dumped the first one immediately because it was so annoying. So I don't really like her anymore and I blow off her texts/calls for the next couple days in which she talks about how sorry she is and how she was just really stressed out with her life and she knows she was being a bitch and she really wants to keep talking. Up to this point, she texts me all day every day, calls to talk quite often, talks about how much she likes hanging out and how much she likes me, etc.
Now, most people wouldn't cancel and not feel the need to even tell your friend you're canceling, unless you really dislike them. If I met someone on the street and we decided to meet up later for whatever reason, if I didn't feel like it I'd at least respect them enough to call and say "hey I'm not gonna make it," I wouldn't just totally blow them off. So I'm assuming this girl really doesn't like me at all and she really just likes having sex, and all the perceived IOI's (her wanting to talk all day, wanting to hang out, talking about how much she likes me, getting jealous when I go out with other girls) were just faked in an attempt to keep me interested in her so I'd keep fucking her (I don't want to sound arrogant but most girls think I'm very good looking), because these are all classic games guys play with girls when they just want to fuck them.
I like her as a friend and I like talking to her but it seems like it'd be a little weird keeping it going and hanging out with her when I know she doesn't like me and she's not having fun. I don't really have "feelings" for her so I'd like to just say "hey let's just drop the facade, not talk at all, and just be fuck buddies" - and I'd be totally fine with this, because I am still talking to other girls, it's just a little disappointing because I did have a lot of fun hanging out with her. But before I say that to her I want to make sure I'm not misinterpreting this. Am I?
(I know this is long so I highlighted the shit I thought was important, lol)