I've been seeing a woman a few times now, she comes around and we have sex, she stays over and seems very interested. The other day we'd just finished and we're lying together, when she starts talking about how she feels. Up until this point we'd both kept our feelings under wraps.
"You deserve someone better" - Shit Test
I played it cool. I told her that I enjoyed spending time with her and what we had was fun.
I don't think she wanted to come right out and say that she was falling for me, (and I know that sounds mighty presumptious to say that myself, but I just have the hunch), but she mirrored what I said, then followed it with "I think you deserve someone better". She has always acted and continues to be subservient to me (even though I don't actively dominate), and it made me wonder what she was meaning.
At the time, I simply said that it was my choice who I see, and what I do, and at the moment I was enjoying her company and time. I told her not to worry about it and just enjoy what was happening.
Inside me though, I'm bothered by this. It appears to be a shit test, but its so reverse-psychological I can't understand the purpose. I couldn't very well say "Yeah I know...".
Also, this is not the first time this has happened- I've had a girl who I had a relationship with for a year say it to me too.
Any thoughts and has anyone ever encountered this?