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I was getting warmed ...
HB 10 rubbed her ass against mine - how to transition?
I was getting warmed up at a bar last night and started talking to a mixed set, mainly just the guys. I wasn't trying to game, just be social, and it was obvious all the girls were dating/married to the guys. A woman came up while I was talking to one of the guys and introduced herself as his wife. I sort of teased her for something she said and went back to my friends.
A few minutes later I feel a luscious ass rubbing against mine and it's that woman. She had been dancing earlier and enjoying the attention. Out of reflex, I waved my finger and mouthed the words "no no" with a smile. This was to A) set the frame that I'm the prize, B) not look like a tool to others, and C) not alienate her husband, who was a pretty cool guy.
The guy I was talking to while she did that, who apparently is an insanely successful natural, told me that's the time I should have turned around and gave her the spin move. In retrospect I shouldn't have given a fuck about her husband and should have gamed her as far as I could. I feel I punished her good behavior (ass to ass contact) instead of rewarding it.
Any thoughts on how to handle that or a similar situation?
Definitely reward the girl for doing that. Acknowledge the barriers (her husband). You acknowledge so she knows you wont do anything "stupid" in front of her husband. If you really really like this girl, you can isolate her. Then you can do whatever from there
Why do I get the image that the husband of an HB10 would have a shaved head and an intimidating face?
Be careful here. With experience you'll find super hot women out with their overly-aggressive boyfriends where she gets off on him getting in your face about his girl. Don't know if it's the case here, but sometimes it's the hotter the girl the crazier she is.
I think in this case it's a good idea to stay away. What is the husband of a hb10 willing to do to protect his prize?
Well your friend the successful natural is a douchebag.
You shouldn't have gamed her at all and you should have looked down on her for her actions.
Why would you want to be with another mans wife when you can be with a single girl, just as hot, with less baggage?
the story is impressing. I feel a luscious ass rubbing against mine...
I would have laughed and given her a playful shove then returned to what I was doing. If she were single I would've done more but you definitely wanna stay away from that drama.
She was probably just drunk anyway.
Yeah, my plan wouldn't have been to steal her away from her husband, just to see how far I could take it without causing undue drama. Her husband was a pretty chill dude and I probably could have gotten away with flirting with her quite a bit. Damn that ass was like a feather pillow though...
She could have been an attention whore. Just wanted you to notice her. I think shaking your finger at her was a good start. Then tell her you don't even know her name so she can't go rubbing up on you. If you were on a first name basis things would be different.
Any girl who does that you do stand a chance of hooking up with. However, she will make you work for it. Don't just throw yourself at her. Also by making her talk to with you, there is social value. All the other girls in the club will see you talking with a HB. Just don't throw yourself at her and you could make it into a 30 min conversation and a possible number close.
Good question! Keep them coming.
hmm thats story got me a boner! lol
Originally Posted by DAlex
as for the No, No. ehh. its not playful teasing. its sounds like you were really saying "eww your ugly get away from me."
i honestly dont tend to get involved with married women, because...THEIR MARRIED! its a pretty strong stepping stone for a family that i will congratulate anyone for finding that special someone.
but if you must because its a luscious ass.
you should be a little more playful. the spin move would have been good in all honestly. it would have gotten her Buying Temp up a little and i it would have said "you fun, im going to play with you" (something im sure the other guys in the set weren't doing = BORING CHODES!!)
in any physical situation with a women. its CRUCIAL you are dominate on that. you control where her body moves, does, goes, and the like. i remember one day my GF wanted to wrestle with me and like a chode i let her win. you know what happened that night?.... i didn't get laid.
i think about a week later, we started wrestling again, this time i was more energetic and i pinned her down with her arms behind her back. you know what she did? she wrapped her legs around me and i saw those sexy "fuck me eyes"
Kino always need to be on you behalf. it need to represent you as a dominate fun super happy positive guy who is always having a good time. and it should be like your that touchy guy who always gets good vibes when you touch someone, as if everyone you touch in a club or bar always gives you a positive reaction for touching them. (that takes a lot of practice btw)
also note- if she is giving you a lot of attention, dont pay attention to the guys. if she isnt paying attention to the men in the set, then neither should you. its like this if she is looking at you as a high value alpha and then you start going back to the low value men, than that mean your low value. so when the girls start ignoring the guys and rubbing their ass on you. play and ignore the guys too.
If i knew this in highschool, id probably be the father of half my township
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