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    Something missing!

    Hi guys, need a bit of advice.

    Ive been developing my game but there is something missing.

    I've overcome approach anxiety, I can build report and comfort and Im feeling quite close to a close on a number of girls where I've entered the ljbf zone before I read all the stuff about the seduction community. In fact even though I have the knowledge of the canned examples, my game is based on the theories of these. I hardly ever use canned stories.

    I can sexually esculate, in fact the girls normally draw the conversation to something sexual and i can encorporate a fair but of kino.

    But I never can get into a situation where it feels right to close.

    Do you think you just have to take the risk or am I missing an element of inner game?

    Any suggestions?


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    You adapt your own game after a while. Somtimes when you are using canned openers and trying to memorize everything you read you will mess your self up. You concentrate so much on making sure you say the right thing the right way and you screw up.

    I look for IOI's when i go to close. If you are not getting any ioi's then there may be something wrong with the attraction phase. Make sure you do your kino and make sure you are getting the IOI's.

    Are you not getting numbers? Are you not kiss closing? or getting numbers but can't do anything with them?

    If you are not getting numbers then you're not asking. If everything is going good there is no reason for her not to give her number.

    If you are not kiss closing then you're not going in for it. Again, if everything is going good then there is no reason for her not to give her number.

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    Its kiss closes I was specifically refering too. I think chicks see me as a "cool" guy to know which may have the potential for something else. I can never make the something else happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by teethgrinder32 View Post
    Its kiss closes I was specifically refering too. I think chicks see me as a "cool" guy to know which may have the potential for something else. I can never make the something else happen.
    I think kino and sex references early are really important. My bro is/was ( he is in a ltr) the master of this. Within 3 minutes he would have girls laughing and making innuendo's and alluding to sex.

    Example. I Met this girl last week, we ended up in a coffee house/bakery and when were asked if we wanted any cake..I joked that I don't eat any cake or cookies...she was shocked. I replied...well not never...I might eat it if it was smeared on someone's body and touched her arm and laughed as I said it..First 2 minutes of the conversation. I follow up with some light talk and then led into a dirty joke....some push/pull and playfull negging....kiss close was super easy after that.
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    yeah kino escalation is what works best for me... i've been talking the most boring stuff on earth during attraction/comfort phase, but because ive been kinoing the shit out of her, the k-close is easy
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