I'm moving onto the 3rd date with an HB. Thing have slowly escalated from our intial meeting. Both dates have ended with us making out, and on the last date, she texted afterwards, that she thought about inviting me in after I dropped her off.

I'm transitioning from a guy trying to create and maintain attraction , to a guy who is trying to build that comfort and connection with her, but still being fun and playful. I want to create that feeling like she's known me for a long time, and that I'm some guy who gets her the way no one else does.

I wrote out some conversation topics, as well as some things to tease her about, but I was wondering if you guys had any other additions/suggestions to make.


CONVO TOPICS
Learning about each other’s life, job, friends, hobbies, family
-is she closer to her mom or her dad?
-whats your relationship with your brother like? Friends? Or protective older brother?
-How her and her brother got along growing up
-Is she really close to any of her cousins?
-Where have you travelled? Where would you want to go?
-If you could have dinner with 5 people in the world, or hang out and have drinks with, who would they be?
-What is a major experience that has shaped who you are?
-Me and my cousin are close > who are you close to? Who do you feel you can open up to the most?
-You prefer few friends that are closer too? Just like me
-Who is the person you feel you can open up the most to in the world?
-Who is the person who is most like you? Thinks the most like you?
-What are qualities that are most important for you in a friend?
-Is there anyone in the world you consider a hero/role model?
more surface level stuff:
-What is your favorite thing to wear in your wardrobe?
-What are your favorite stores?

TEASING
-how short she is
-how young she looks
-how she’s a dork
-being playfully bossy
-“I’m almost starting to think your not crazy. Not totally convinced yet…but I'm getting there”
-“I noticed that when I'm holding your hand, people look have been giving me dirty looks...like I'm a guy who spends too much time hanging around high schools”