Thread: Can Race Be An Issue?

I love women of all races. But I keep thinking in my mind if I should go out with these females. Seeing that I am african-american and down here in the South, some may not take it kindly dating their beautiful daughters ( usually caucasian, asian females ). What can I do to diminish this factor in my mind? It seems like it's an obstacle I'm trying to get through. Any advice, material or comments can be appreciated. Also, anyway I can ease their comfort in knowing that all black guys aren't labeled stereotypes?

Idk how things are in the south but here in MD white girls love black men. When approaching women just try and think positive keep saying in your mind "yea that girl wants me".

Originally Posted by Africaness

I love women of all races. But I keep thinking in my mind if I should go out with these females. Seeing that I am african-american and down here in the South, some may not take it kindly dating their beautiful daughters ( usually caucasian, asian females ). What can I do to diminish this factor in my mind? It seems like it's an obstacle I'm trying to get through. Any advice, material or comments can be appreciated. Also, anyway I can ease their comfort in knowing that all black guys aren't labeled stereotypes?

Sup broski? I am the product of a multicultural relationship. Let me begin by saying, anyone that says it isn't a big deal is a fucking idiot. It is a huge deal. If you love someone, that should all be what matters. You do have to acknoledge the signifcant differences in culture though. I notice my mom's traditions and my fathers' traditions are watered down. This irritates many people. Your going against the norms in society. Ironically enough, it isn't a norm for people to be running around the city in mid day hitting on women in what we call day game. You go against the norms in society by taking it a step further. Its the same sorta concept. Though I am mixed - white/asian, I tend to deal with white girls usually of english, irish, scottish background. I have dealt with a few asians but, in terms of physicality, i prefer white girls. I hooked up with a puerto rican girl while on spring break. Short, think waist, wide hips, big ass, pretty face. I mean, why not? There is something sexy about differences, going against the norms, and what seemingly "bad." Just acknowledge you will ruffle some feathers but, as long as you two are happy, that is all that matters. I met some black dudes in Cancun. Funny bunch. They kept telling me how they are getting laid tonight even if they have to pull a whale. I laughed pretty hard. I then made my exit as i found it to be a DLV to be seen with them doing this and talking about this. Good bunch from down south though. Hilarious and really strong southern accents. CHeers man!

Originally Posted by Africaness

I love women of all races. But I keep thinking in my mind if I should go out with these females. Seeing that I am african-american and down here in the South, some may not take it kindly dating their beautiful daughters ( usually caucasian, asian females ). What can I do to diminish this factor in my mind? It seems like it's an obstacle I'm trying to get through. Any advice, material or comments can be appreciated. Also, anyway I can ease their comfort in knowing that all black guys aren't labeled stereotypes?

Easy... just go out and approach all those women... see how many actually reject you because of your race..

Im black as well.

My best friend is Irish. He asked me how to hook up with a beautiful black chick.

I replied...*How da fuck should I know?...Ask Trent Reznor*..lol

Variety is the spice of life. A PUA is an international man.

The only place where your race might matter my man, is with the male friends of your target. I'm a white male and I know that white girls love black men. Maybe its the stereotype of your johnson, I'm not really sure, but I wouldn't worry about it. Remember, your fuckin dope, hold a strong confident frame and your good to go.

Good luck!

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