So, I have stolen a few girls from their boyfriends before. I have a pretty good idea about how to go about it. Actually, the first one I stole by following advice on that boyfriendstealer.com website haha and I slowly saw her signs of interest develop. The second one followed about the same signs, except she came to me. the first girl didn't break up with her boyfriend and told me she won't date guys who weren't her religion. she told me this when she was drunk so I know it wasn't bullshit haha...truth comes out when drinking. she actually, said, on her own without me even mentioning dating or what would happen after we hooked up..."I have to keep myself from liking you more and more b/c the more I like you the harder it'll be for me since I can't date you b/c of your religion." haha, so yea....the second girl told me she'd break up with her boyfriend, told me she loved me...it was bad. I told her not to break up with him b/c her and I couldn't go out but she broke up with him anyway and I think she hates me now. sooo yea, I know things don't END WELL for anyone in this situation. I'm not interested in dating a girl who I get to cheat on her b/f b/c she'll prolly cheat on me at some point.

Anyways, now I'm at it again. This girl flirts with me all the time. It's been getting more and more flirtatious. Now, she's consistently complimenting me on my physical looks. She wasn't doing that up until the last few weeks. So, I know it's going somewhere. The problem is the boyfriend. The last 2 girls I stole had boyfriends who lived a few hours away (because they were in college apart). This new girl has her boyfriend right here in town. I've the had opportunity to go out with her in groups, but her boyfriend would always be there, too, so I wouldn't go (and also b/c i'd have plans to go out with friends and i love the crazy club nights with them). It actually worked to my advantage by not showing up to these outings b/c last week she actually txt me asking where I was and to meet up with everyone. I knew her boyfriend was there, tho, so I just didn't even respond to the txt. So, I guess she was thinking of me that night even tho she was with her boyfriend? So, the repoire is building, the compliments, etc. The problem is I actually need to step it up and get this going more before the window closes. How do I deal with the boyfriend being there? How do I act in front of her when her boyfriend is around? I need to show more demonstration of value in front of him or just completely ignore both of them or a combo of the two? I've met him a few times...he's a nice guy but I'm not friends with him so I don't really care that I'm trying to screw him over haha.

so, what do I do? my tactics are working on the girl herself, but how do I deal with the boyfriend? he's almost always around when we go out, so I just need advice on how to deal with him. should I continue what I do and NOT go out if I know he's going to be there or what? thanks!

also, on a different note, when interacting with the girl, is it best to NEVER make any physical contact? if she puts her arm around my shoulder, knock it off and say like "hands off?" haha so far I just let her make physical contact but maybe it'd work more to my advantage of I push her away? I have tried making physical contact with her, and I can't tell if that's a good or bad thing. Sometimes, like today, she'll let me put my hand on her waste if she's near me talking to me or other times she'll push me away, so IDK really on that...any advice?