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negging insecure girl
How does one neg a girl that is not very secure and kind of shy? We been friends for quite a bit and I figure is time to start negging her as I basically put her on a pestdal before. Problem is that the fact she is kind of shy (around other people but not me) and overreacts to stuff (like me jokingly tell her to suck my cock) so I don't know the right approach to do this.
For example, we are meeting tomorrow and last time that we met , she came in late, sweaty, and pissed off. So I wanted to say something like "sure we can meet at x o'clock, lets hope you are not all sweaty and pissy this time" but not sure if that's too much.
If you were putting her on a pedestal before, and have suddenly switched to giving negs of the kind you referred to above, it could come off as a bit crude; especially if the tone isn't right, and even more so for a shy person. I wouldn't use such strong negs. If you were just meeting at a party or in a club somewhere, or if you had displayed such a character all along, that would be one thing. But that isn't the case here, you are attempting to show a side of yourself that she hasn't seen before, and she might not understand that.
More innocent, and less abrasive negs would be my suggestion.
Sometimes, indeed, there is such a discrepancy between the genius and his human qualities that one has to ask oneself whether a little less talent might not have been better. - C.G. Jung
Most literature I've read says not to neg girls that aren't 9s and 10s.
But last weekend I did, and it worked fairly well:
Her: (saying something to her friend, who I was talking to)
Me: Wow, your voice is really weak, I can barely hear you!
Her: (a little startled) I'm... sorry
Me: No don't apologize for being human!
That opened her up. So my advice would be, if you think your neg went too far, lighten it up somehow, but don't apologize or contradict yourself.
"Venus favors the bold" - Ovid
Seems like u fell in the friends zone and u revolve in her world (u be late next time and don't apologize just act like nothing happend) ...I would use the cat string method...when ur in a group of people show her that ur the prize try to get most of the attention in ur group and give her less attention and flirt with other chicks shell try to get attention from u ignore her twice and on the third one make a move be confident about it (no guts no glory)
Originally Posted by johndude222
While there are very gentle ways that you can tease a girl who might be a little insecure, there are other ways that you can disqualify yourself to build attraction. When you make ridiculous statements about yourself that aren't true, it shows that you aren't treating the conversation like a Faberge egg, which is one of the things we try to accomplish when we disqualify.
But really, if you're dealing with a girl in your social circle, you might already have all the attraction that you need. Try to get compliance and qualify her and see what happens.
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