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    Best Way To Respond to I Miss You

    I have tried searching but didn't come up with anything really related to my situation and not looking for game on a platter...
    Hears the situation.

    The girl I have been kinda dating/seeing (sleeping with) was gone to her parents for the weekend. She would text me saying she misses me and stuff. Then on her way home she calls saying she is going to go hang out with another guy on the way back. I said have fun etc but wanted to say if you missed me that much you would come and see me

    So my question is whats the best way to respond to I miss you, especially when I feel like saying you don't miss me if you would rather spend time with someone else? Of course I wouldn't say that but that is kinda what I'm feeling, but don't wanna come across needy etc.

    She just text me asking "you don't miss me"



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    When you sleep with someone (even before that) you invest in her and she invests in you. If she keeps telling u she misses you and you dont say it back then it only makes sense that she ll go see some other guy. The ability to emote is greatly appreciated by women as long as it doesnt come off as needy and clingy.

    Its like saying to a woman I love you and she never says that back to you. Probably you ll search for someone else. At least with the info you provide this is all that comes in mind.

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    yea thanks for the quick response. I did say I miss you back when she was visiting her family. The point I was thinking was that she kept saying it and then when she was coming back she spent time with someone else.

    I sent her a message asking when she is coming back cause I wanted to see her. She said blah blah she will call me on her way back and then on her way back she did but said she was going to see someone else.

    So I said have fun blah blah

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    I was in a similar situation about 3 weeks ago. I ran into a girl that I had been sleeping about a month before that, but hadn't seen her for a couple weeks. We had a quick chat, but I was just about to head out for an Oktoberfest event in a different city so I told her I couldn't stay and said something along the lines of 'see you around'. She texted me later that night when I was in the other city:

    Her: It was good to see you today. Are you going to drunk text me tonight (this had happened in the past but not for a couple weeks) or are you just going to 'see me around'?

    Me: Well I came to this event to have a blast and that comes first, so I make no guarantees about any drunk texts

    Her. Oh, well I wish I was there, I miss you.

    Anyways, I didn't respond to this cause I didn't have anything good to say at the time. I had a blast that night and didn't text her back. The next night when I was back home I get a call from her at 1am wanting to see me. So she came over and we ended up having sex again.

    To me it seems like the 'I miss you' may be a bit of reaction seeking behaviour on her part. Perhaps just try forgetting this girl for a little while and move on to other things and concentrate on yourself. If she notices/or knows you are having a good time without her, this may draw her back in? Seemed to work for me at least

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    HER: Do you miss me?
    YOU: Do you want me to miss you?

    HER: I miss(ed) you.
    YOU: Y'know, i was thinking about you the other day when...../ I saw xxxxx the other day which reminded me of you (or reminded me of the time when we .....).

    I.e. You are not saying you miss her but girls want to know that you are thinking of them when they are not around.
    Love is like a fart; if you have to force it, it's probably shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Perceive View Post
    I was in a similar situation about 3 weeks ago. I ran into a girl that I had been sleeping about a month before that, but hadn't seen her for a couple weeks. We had a quick chat, but I was just about to head out for an Oktoberfest event in a different city so I told her I couldn't stay and said something along the lines of 'see you around'. She texted me later that night when I was in the other city:

    Her: It was good to see you today. Are you going to drunk text me tonight (this had happened in the past but not for a couple weeks) or are you just going to 'see me around'?

    Me: Well I came to this event to have a blast and that comes first, so I make no guarantees about any drunk texts

    Her. Oh, well I wish I was there, I miss you.

    Anyways, I didn't respond to this cause I didn't have anything good to say at the time. I had a blast that night and didn't text her back. The next night when I was back home I get a call from her at 1am wanting to see me. So she came over and we ended up having sex again.

    To me it seems like the 'I miss you' may be a bit of reaction seeking behaviour on her part. Perhaps just try forgetting this girl for a little while and move on to other things and concentrate on yourself. If she notices/or knows you are having a good time without her, this may draw her back in? Seemed to work for me at least

    juat my 2 cents!

    ya you would! i was walking hanging out in the mall with SOMEONE the other day and i caught a wiff of your perfume it so reminded me of you and that time we were at bla bla what a great time we had im going to blaa bla when you get home come along itll be so much fun!

    first make fun of her with you would

    then let her know you did think about her while she was gone! ie perfume or whatever chicks dig that shit!!
    plus you set it up for when she got home!

    im a rookie i dont know!! thats how i would have dealt with it!!

    feed back is good

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderbirds View Post
    juat my 2 cents!

    ya you would! i was walking hanging out in the mall with SOMEONE the other day and i caught a wiff of your perfume it so reminded me of you and that time we were at bla bla what a great time we had im going to blaa bla when you get home come along itll be so much fun!

    feed back is good
    Too try hard but the C/F joke at the beginning is good.
    Love is like a fart; if you have to force it, it's probably shit.

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    It goes beyond just one liners. Sounds like this isn't really a serious relationship, and she's about having fun and adventures. What do you want with her? Do you want a relationship or just casual sex?

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    Principles principles principles.

    Cut and clear. A girl gives u an IOI, u reward her. U dont tease her about it, u dont play off as cool. I know probably playing off the cool part boosts ur confidence for a little time-frame but on the long run it jst keeps u from succeeding more. Dont be the ass who does not appreciate anybody besides himself(I used to be around 1-2 year ago for info, so its not an insult)
    "Psychology is an essential ingredient so that logic dominates emotions, and the human dominates the animal"

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