Good-ish rant-post, but I'm going to disagree on numbers 5 and 9.

5. You don’t drink.

Alcohol is a magical drug that makes getting laid significantly easier, and I’m not talking about getting girls drunk. Just one drink increases the chance you will get laid about 20%. Three drinks in her system is all you need.

A little bit of alcohol never hurt anybody.

While drinking may help 'take the edge off', it also decreases your timing, reactions, and overall consciousness. It costs you money and ends up becoming a crutch for your game. "Hell, I just need a drink or two..." To work your game beyond alcohol is something worthwhile, and then you're virtually 'drunk' all the time, as you're functioning at that higher level sober.

And I guess a little cocaine, heroine, or drunk-driving never hurt anyone?

9. You have an extreme deformity that hopefully can be fixed with either hard work (obesity) or surgery (gigantic nose).

Modern science has come a long way.

If you're not comfortable with the skin you're in, get plastic surgery to change that skin?

I agree with the weight-loss and becoming fit aspect (even drugs for acne), not just for the health reasons but because it is more attractive to most. But promoting cosmetic surgery? Is that really going to change your game? Caring about that is an inner-game issue. You can have better, tighter game by developing your inner-game, plus save yourself thousands of dollars.

Also, with #17, you don't have to be ballin'. Hell, dates can be less than $20 (I've gone on dates where I don't spend a dime). There are a lot of ways to cut corners and save money, but not doing so in an ugly way. MONEY IS NOT ESSENTIAL.

Big one missing from the list:

YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO TOUCH A GIRL.

kino escalation is just as important as any other factor. It's a whole third of the triad model.

Also body language should be mentioned. It sort of falls under confidence but it is SO important it should have it's own number. Stand up straight, lock in, don't lean in, smile, make movements with intention, hold eye contact, etc...

Number one was proved today again for me. I had a presentation for my class where I had to get up and speak for 20 minutes about love/marriage/sex to a class of about 30. Part of that 20 minutes involved a story about a European knight. It was hardcore. My booming voice and exceptional storytelling skills enraptured the audience.

So much so, that I got an A on my project.

Sick post dude. I'm throwing a link to this on the blog.


-B

"4. You haven’t optimized your look.

Have you taken the time with different hair and beard configurations, or do you still look the same as five years ago, wearing that same shirt with the stain on the sleeve? You don’t need model good-looks to have sex with pretty girls.

Dress to a certain niche. When you specialize in what type of girls you want to get, everything starts to fall into place a lot easier.

5. You don’t drink.

Alcohol is a magical drug that makes getting laid significantly easier, and I’m not talking about getting girls drunk. Just one drink increases the chance you will get laid about 20%. Three drinks in her system is all you need.

A little bit of alcohol never hurt anybody.

6. You don’t work out.

You’re a fright to look at naked. You don’t have to be a meathead, but if you feel good about your body then you’ll feel good about yourself, and this comes across in a positive attitude with girls you talk to.

Get your ass to the gym, and I mean pronto, fat flaps!"

These things are stereotype things that people say and they are often not true at all.

More Important things are isolation and having good wings when you go out that can take care of her friends and possible cockblockers.

Originally Posted by CMPitts

5. You don’t drink.

Alcohol is a magical drug that makes getting laid significantly easier, and I’m not talking about getting girls drunk. Just one drink increases the chance you will get laid about 20%. Three drinks in her system is all you need.

A little bit of alcohol never hurt anybody.

Jeeeeeeeeeee-zus dude really?? Complete rubbish. But go ahead, keep using the crutch.

you forgot one and in my opinion most important thing to getting laid and not:


logistics


The first time with a chick, especially if one isnt getting laid is at the guys house. So having day 2s nearby, not moving towards your place means you probably wont get laid

Yea I don't drink as well, but I really don't need to for the women Im going after. But otherwise it is a good read, thanks for the post!

Hi

Great post and I agree with a lot of those points but I really don't think it is necessary to get laid by drinking! I know some of my wings who get laid without alcohol. One of them is a Muslim and has done very well! I myself have been laid without alcohol!

#22: Your place is fucking digusting.

No girl wants to have sex on top of your old mountain dew bottles, three week old chinese take out and your shit-stained Transformers boxers. Wipe the crusty piss off your toilet and throw away that six week old milk from your refrigerator. Seriously, this is something huge and so many men just totally neglect. It is not "alpha" to live like a 21st century human version of the Grouch from Sesame street.