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    Only going for same night lays

    So my PUA friend decided that he's only going to go for same night lays.

    No number closes, no day 2s, and practically even no kiss closing. The only time he wants to kiss close is in the time of his lay.

    I'm not going to tell you guys if he's a legendary pick up artist or just another AFC.

    I want to know what you guys think of this ideology and mindset first.



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    everyone has their own goals, so kudos to him, at least he has clear what he wants, high risk, high reward.

    edit: you already defined him as a PUA lol

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    Sounds like a pussy move, because he's too scared to do anything else. Do these same night lays involve copious amounts of alcohol?

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    Talk about putting the pussy on a pedestal!

    He's just made himself a slave to snatch, and proven my favorite saying: A cunt hair can pull a locomotive.

    It sounds immature. Like the guy who says he's going to do 1,000 approaches in a month, or who sets himself up for failure in many other ways.

    Looking at it from another perspective, women are much more self-protective than men. They have radar for guys who just want to fuck them.

    Here's a way he can guarantee his own success: Hire a hooker.
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    Unless it's a place you go to once, keep in mind most of the girls in the club know who the slutty ones are, and if one week you go home with her and the next week you open a set and they'll tell you point blank they saw you with her.

    K-closing on the dance floor, not a big deal. Making out the rest of the night in the corner, they do it too. But walk out with her and they saw you? Not a good idea. Or just go to places you don't go that much so no one really notices. Always leave separately and meet up somewhere if he's going to be trying to go that route.

    Best places are cities where people are in town for a few days for a convention and it's the tourist trap club. They're looking for fun, they have money to burn, they have the room, and odds are pretty good that something will happen that night.

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    Its nothing against to say against that, if you want to sharpen your skillset in a particular area.
    Ive been there, I ran basically only SNL game for over a year (but I took numbers all the time and sometimes kissed the girl in clubs, sometimes it can help you), but after a while I found out I became really shitty in dates. I never really tried day game and I had no idea how to run game in social circle without appearing weird. So I changed that and worked on these other areas.
    To be clear, I missed out a lot of great opportunitys to meet awesome women while focusing on anly one area of game.
    Be flexible and dont be over dogmatic, otherwise you miss out a lot.

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    I find it 100 times easyer to snl then it is to go through all of that day 2 garbage.

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    I think the main difference between a PUA and the guys who just "get lucky" sometimes is a PUA's ability to remain consistent from the first night to the day2.

    I think you get more sex if you plan to get your lays on the day2, and be able to calibrate for an SNL.

    You're friend is going to come out with a much better idea of when he can and can't get an SNL in any given situation, and he'll be rounding out his skillset.

    For training purposes: Yes
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    I bet if logistics are perfect. I can SNL pretty much any girl that I pick up. I dunno maybe I developed one skill set more than the other.

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    I bet if logistics are perfect.
    Unless your at the bar next door, when are logistics ever perfect.

    I live 16 minutes away from the city. . .

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