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    When will you guys realize that LOOKS are almost all that matters!?

    A close friend of mine has been brainwashed by the PUA cult. He started this crap a year ago and he only becomes more and more obsessed with it. He is 25 years old and he has never even kissed a girl. I already know why...it is because he is ugly. He has a HUGE nose (dorsal hump, over-projected tip, too long vertically) and he is severely balding (he's only 25 but he has a badly receded hairline and a bald spot at the vortex). On top of that he has a very long mid-face...like sarah jessica parker.

    At first he thought that bulking up would help him...he worked out obsessively for a year and a half and now he's pretty damn buff...but still a virgin.

    Then he some PUA idiots brought him into the cult and got him to buy PUA books and other snake oil you guys push. He's spend hundreds on this crap and spent countless hours reading all of this PUA crap...but he still cant get girls. His PUA buddies are all telling him he's making great progress but he's still never kissed a girl. Its funny how PUAs measure a man's "progress" ...its not by how successful with women he is..but how brainwashed he is. Thats why PUA is no different from a religious cult.

    How many more rejections is it gonna take for him to realize that HIS FACE is the reason he cant get girls. I try to tell him its his looks and he goes by this same "oh well theres this one ugly guy with a girlfriend" logic that all you PUAs go by.

    By the way that logic is flawed in so many ways. You cant just name one or two ugly dudes with girlfriends and say that looks dont matter to women. Thats like saying that east asians are no shorter than caucasians because Yao Ming is 7 foot 6. ITS CALLED AN ANOMALY!

    Roughly half of my friends are virgins. Out of all of my friends that are virgins ALL of them 100 PERCENT are ether overweight, ugly, balding or some combination of the three. My friends that are somewhat successful with women are average looking or better. And the few friends I have that are relatively successful with women are all fairly good looking. This is no coincidence.

    I wonder how long it is going to take my friend to realize that HIS LOOKS are the reason he is not getting girls. Its not his approach or "confidence" or his "game"...ITS HIS LOOKS!

    When women talk about the guys they like they don't say "Oh John has so much confidence" or "Oh John makes the best approaches" ..NO THEY DON'T SAY THAT....they say "Oh John is so cute/hot"

    Why do you guys always go ape shit every time a guy even SUGGESTS that LOOKS play a major role in attraction?



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    hahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaahhahahaaa... Oh man , you're too much. hahahahahaahaha

    I've known dudes that are short, ugly as fuck , and speak and and gesticulate in a manner that reminds me of homosexual behavior, yet they pull more chicks than your so called "good -looking " friends ever will. And keep in mind , they're not even PUAs , they're just naturals.
    Also, did you hear the rumour that Brad Pitt wasn't that good with women 'till he got famous. Apparently, when he came to Hollywood, he got no lays for the longest time.

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    Looks matter quite a bit. There's not much a lot of these guys can do to improve their looks for the most part so all they can really do is project an attractive personality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GIUGIK1 View Post
    hahahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaahhahahaaa... Oh man , you're too much. hahahahahaahaha

    I've known dudes that are short, ugly as fuck , and speak and and gesticulate in a manner that reminds me of homosexual behavior, yet they pull more chicks than your so called "good -looking " friends ever will. And keep in mind , they're not even PUAs , they're just naturals.
    Also, did you hear the rumour that Brad Pitt wasn't that good with women 'till he got famous. Apparently, when he came to Hollywood, he got no lays for the longest time.
    Here we go already that that "duur I know a guy whos fat/ugly and he gets girls derp derp derp" arguement.

    You PUAs are so predictable its not even funny.

    I already made a preemptive argument counter to this PUA talking point but you just completely ignored it and used that same talking point you ALL use anyway.

    Like I said in my original post....you cant just say "oh well i know a couple ugly guys with girlfriends" and say that looks dont matter. I could say that since Yao Ming is 7 foot 6 that automatically makes east asians no shorter than caucasians.

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    By the way that logic is flawed in so many ways. You cant just name one or two ugly dudes with girlfriends and say that looks dont matter to women. Thats like saying that east asians are no shorter than caucasians because Yao Ming is 7 foot 6. ITS CALLED AN ANOMALY!
    No, ugly dudes who have girlfriends have qualities other than looks that make them attractive to women. Some of those can be learned.

    I'm not sure why you're posting here. You aren't going to change anybody's mind, nobody is trying to convince you to do anything. You just seem determined to talk your friend out of pickup. Which is kind of weird, given it doesn't affect you.
    Why do you guys always go ape shit every time a guy even SUGGESTS that LOOKS play a major role in attraction?
    Everybody knows looks play a role. Nobody goes apeshit. You are creating straw man arguments.

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