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Thanks fellas, really, i'm not doing anything, lol, I dont ...
Sorry for the late reply
Thanks fellas, really, i'm not doing anything, lol, I dont stare, I dont look at tha tits haha. Even my ex said that she wouldn't approach me and that I look stuck up. I will try to put pics soon.
Thanks for the responses
We don't need pics. Im going to say this in confidence that you will take it the right way.
Originally Posted by The_Pretender
-If you look like a serial killer, girls will treat you like one.
You gotta dress for the occassion man. I used to have this problem too...What i did to solve it was
A-Started hitting the gym. Girls can tell your confidence level almost instantly, mainly by your posture. By going to the gym alot, this boosts your confidence level, making you sit up straight and just overall more confident...After a while you just kind of look in the mirror and just think..."Fuck im good"
B-I got a better job and started buying better clothes and shit. Started taking better care of myself that way.
C- I think this was my biggest problem. Whenever a girl walked by, looked at me or something, my friends all agreed that i instantly had a retarded look on my face with my mouth kind of half open and shit. You HAVE to be aware of this shit and just keep tabs on it. Shoot her a smirk when she looks your way...Who cares if she doesn't like it, you dont fucking know her, and if she pulls that shit, you dont want too.
D- Giving a fuck about what some random girl thinks about you will really get you nowhere fast.
Nice man, I was actually thinking the same thing the other day "the serial killer look" as my ex's dad used to say I looked like a killer, lol. Only because I never smiled, but I do now.
Originally Posted by JEDI JAKE
Thanks fo the advice man
It easy to say your not doing anything but you can't see what you're doing like someone else can, especially someone who knows what to look for.
In this case I think the problem is that you are misinterpreting the looks they are giving you. Next time it happens try smiling at them and you will find that they will smile back.
Does this only happen to you in Las Vegas casinos?
People have a tendency to notice negative and ignore positive.
I bet that out of all girls that checked you out, say 5 out of 10 you didn't notice, but only paid attention to 2 girls that gave you "dirty look"
"This happens all the time" is ONLY what you're noticing.
Like you said, guys and girls compliment you on the looks and attire, yet, this doesn't seem to help your self esteem, but couple isolated "greasy looks" seem to hurt it much.
Dude. I get dirty looks too. I'd say 10% of the time.
The negative is insignificant, yet you seem like it is to you. It's just few instances.
The ghost of pua's past.
Bro, why do women do anything? I stopped trying to figure that out shortly after birth. I don't waste anytime trying to bother understanding what goes on in their head. They are walking contradictions. They say one thing, and do another. Your missing the point. You weren't too drunk (alcohol is a temp means of escape, you don't need it btw). You also mentioned you weren't extremely happy. You need to get at the girls with the balloons, serious peacockers, the brods with the tiaras, and anyone emiting a happy vibe. If you seen someone that looked like Wanderlei Silva grilling you, would you want too approach them? My ability too close is great. When alcohol is involved, i don't cause i am in an entirely different state of mind focusing rather on getting laid rather then the current time being "here" & "now!" When chopping/sarging/picking up women, i am drinking nothing but, maybe water. That is it. No energydrinks, no temp means of a high with a backlash later on in the night. I don't believe in wings. I acknowledge how they can help you but, i know how they can hurt you too. In running game solo, i'm like 007, i work alone. win, lose, draw, its all on me and i love it.
Originally Posted by The_Pretender
in closing, fuck emmm! she doesn't matter. bottom line, your losing sight of the goal. The game was the last book i read. Prior too that, i read many of which were mentioned in the game including "unlimited power" by anthony robbins, "think & grow rich" by Napolean Hill among many others. I my friend suggest reading a book called, "The way of the peaceful warrior" by Dan Millman. It carries much insight into day to day life. I mean this as a friend too in saying, you lack focus. There are so many distractions in life. Don't get caught up in them. Temp escapes like alcohol, drugs, and especially, a lack of control over your free floating mind have a high cost. Cheers man, all the best!
Gotta co-sign. Just try to stay positive at all times and maybe you're looking at it the wrong way or reading the signs wrong. There's been times where I thought a girl didn't like me and I later found out she was into me. So if you're genuinely not doing anything wrong, then fuk it who cares. Not everyone will like you. But be sure to get some honest feedback from close friends.
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