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    getting girls to chase!

    ive noticed that in my game i always end up chasing after the girls in the beggining, they never chase me.

    the only girls that chase me are girls that i have no intrest in (and yes i know thats why theyre chasing me, because i dont show them interest).

    is anybody else having this problem? is this normal?

    once i get involved with a girl they end up putting in most of the work, but i want it like that from the start. is this not realistic?


    bite off more than you can chew, and then chew it.

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    TruE

    Every girl I wanted I had chase them down and give them something for there time. All females didn't want just chase me down and try so hard. I guess that how universe spin.

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    yea man i know what you mean... i feel like i lose girls cause my pride gets in the way. like when i tell a girl to call me, if she doesnt i just stop talking to her for awhile. or if i feel like im gaming too hard, ill let her go.

    i know its stupid but i dont chase girls like i probably should. pride is a bitch haha
    bite off more than you can chew, and then chew it.

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    Demonstrate High Value...

    Actually, go read the Mystery Method...and Magic Bullets...

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    Showing great interest for 1-2 minutes (without turning them off; it's about the timing) and then great disinterest makes them chase you in order to return the interest level; They feel like they've earned you and then suddenly you draw back... works like a charm.

    Also jealousy... but jealousy can't have a great effect before you've at least qualified a little.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Voodooz View Post
    Showing great interest for 1-2 minutes (without turning them off; it's about the timing) and then great disinterest makes them chase you in order to return the interest level; They feel like they've earned you and then suddenly you draw back... works like a charm.

    Also jealousy... but jealousy can't have a great effect before you've at least qualified a little.
    +1

    I like to open in a candid way. This is why I dont open with compliments. I make them earn them. You can also get them to jump through hoops. I will explain how that teknik works for me.

    Be interesting. I like to tell stories that just come out of nowhere and have no point..then in the end there is a plot twist that is very relevant to the topic of conversation. By doing things like this..they will pay attention when you talk. Don't do it too much though. Make her laugh.

    I have a theme about Time. If you can make her perceive her time with you as valuable she won't be able to wait to see you again. Learn her personality and feed her needs. Make sure she feels as if she is interesting to you as well.
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    Disclaimer: This is simply one of my methods. I like to use personal bonding

    Example: The next time you are in a store and you cant decide what kind of juice to buy and a nice girl comes up and you're in her way...Simply ask her what kind is the best. Dont ask What kind SHE likes the best. lol

    Thats an opener and a compliance test. If she jumps through the hoop by elaborating..you are in a good position. You're not all over her so that can be a form of DHV. Like..your looks dont matter..ur just a girl.

    Thats a non sexual opener. She will start to teach you something. You knod as she motions her hands. That all creates comfort. Now that you have her feeling that you like her and not her looks. This can be your sign of genuine interest. You appear to only be social and you can bail easily if need be. Now that she has shown you that she is a cool person, she has earned her compliment. Now..you can compliment her looks and throw in sexual compatibility. From here you can transition to any place you want. When I compliment and she responds well with body language I will call her on it and actually tell her that I can see that shes attracted. There are shortcuts you can take. There are a lot of other ways to make her anticipate seeing you again.

    Dont move too fast. Kissing and touching are forms of bonding. Once she gives her body..she has nothing left to give..so you dont want to be fondling "private" areas. Build that comfort..kino..and she will anticipate seeing you and you wont have to look so hard for her.

    Now that there is personal bonding I can get her to see me again and build that comfort time. Then you just kino and build until she is ready. Nope its not the most "Alpha" way..but it works for me.

    I am pretty laid back and that works for me. I'm also a musician so when they see me on stage Im "so different." If you have other forms of DHV you dont have to be Don Juan. I once reinvented myself as a teen and I found myself in social situations where I had no idea what to do. So if you pretend to be someone else..its not always good. You also have to keep track of too many lies..lol

    An extremely cocky guy can shatter whatever record you think you may set with that style above. He will simply walk up and tell a girl shes attracted to him. She will have to admit it if she does and >BAM!!< He can be making out in less than 2 mins. It can be done and its awesome when it works for different guys. Its just not very easy for me to display genuine interest after I open like that. lol. You have to know your approach and how to counter every one of your own moves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Voodooz View Post
    Showing great interest for 1-2 minutes (without turning them off; it's about the timing) and then great disinterest makes them chase you in order to return the interest level; They feel like they've earned you and then suddenly you draw back... works like a charm.

    This make sence! Bravo!!!

    Im gona use this!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PillPoppinAnimal View Post
    Demonstrate High Value...

    Actually, go read the Mystery Method...and Magic Bullets...
    You should honestly stop giving people "advice".

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