Hostess?????????????????

Da Proof · #1 (**permalink**) 06-06-2008, 01:54 AM

Ok,

My friends called me up asking for an opener for a Hostess at a restaurant. Now they already seen the girl before and asked me what to say to her.

Now I'm still a newbie so I didnt have a clue and I didnt see anything on here about this and thats why I'm writing this. Any good ideas or Pick Up's to get her into them or any hostess as well?

THANKS

LittlbigD · #2 (**permalink**) 06-06-2008, 02:02 AM

It takes way more then an opener!

Smooth88 · #3 (**permalink**) 06-06-2008, 02:07 AM

I guess he knows that. But he's asking for an opener, not for a senseless post. Thing is, you have to make clear, why you're asking her. A good opener example would be:

"Hey, quick female opinion on something. My best friend broke up with his girlfriend to date her friend, who is a hostess as well. Thing is, he doesn't know if she's really attracted to him. Due to the fact that she's constantly smiling at him and touching him, he thinks so. Do you think it's only part of her job, or is she really attracted?"

ropinroller · #4 (**permalink**) 07-24-2008, 09:07 PM

If it's a place where she asks where the would like to be seated (booth, table, etc.) have them tell her that they don't care where she seats them.

Then when they get to the table have them say, "No! Not here! Can you seat us somewhere else?" in a serious tone.

She'll be a little out wack at that point and probably say "Oh...uh....sure"

Then have them smile and say, "It's cool. Just messin' with ya!" and touch her arm lightly.

She'll smile and want to retreat. But, it will get her to remember them. Then they can start a light convo with a different routine later, when they see her again.

Mowglii · #5 (**permalink**) 07-25-2008, 04:59 AM

hitting on Hostess's in a busy restaurant takes some serious skills, you have a limited amount of time with as they are usually busy and stretched, if your waitress is hot though.... you got more time with her and shes got a commitment to your table. Good Luck sorry I can't help more

Da Proof · #6 (**permalink**) 07-26-2008, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by ropinroller

If it's a place where she asks where the would like to be seated (booth, table, etc.) have them tell her that they don't care where she seats them.

Then when they get to the table have them say, "No! Not here! Can you seat us somewhere else?" in a serious tone.

She'll be a little out wack at that point and probably say "Oh...uh....sure"

Then have them smile and say, "It's cool. Just messin' with ya!" and touch her arm lightly.

She'll smile and want to retreat. But, it will get her to remember them. Then they can start a light convo with a different routine later, when they see her again.

Thanks for this one. This is exactly what I'm talking about. I know all the basics about Body Language and Tonality so this would be a great way to Neg them but in a subtle style.

There arent many cute hostess' were I live so field testing would be difficult and my friends are AFC's and can never pick a good place to eat lol.

stigger · #7 (**permalink**) 07-31-2008, 01:01 PM

There's a good part in Style's book, The Game, about a pua, Zan, who hits on waitresses and hostesses. You should check that out.

dirtyt · #8 (**permalink**) 08-11-2008, 03:42 PM

ive tried the routne from styles book...maybe it's just me but it only sounds better in practice. Has anyone actually gotten it to work? I field tested but got mediocre to cold results.