picking up a really busy bartender - The Attraction Forums

toni79 · #1 (**permalink**) 05-28-2008, 09:33 AM

Do u guys think this could work at a club where the bartenders R really really busy, and there's NO time to talk.

Ordering first drink you get i really wide smile and a long look.

Ordering a second drink:

PUA:I really like your energy, r you a sociable person?
HB: (if she smiles and says) Yes
PUA: (smile) Type in your number (pointing a cell towards her) and I'll text you later. OR Write me your number and I'll text/call u later/tomorrow

I'm not afraid of a turn down, I just wanna know I gave my best shot, she always has the right 2 say no.

Vapor · #2 (**permalink**) 05-28-2008, 09:40 AM

You'll get flaky numbers that way. Show up much earlier on her next shift.

toni79 · #3 (**permalink**) 05-28-2008, 09:45 AM

It's a night club. And yeah, I'm aware of that and was thinking about it, but then maybe a cool and short text msg game could work. And maybe not making it a full date since she for sure doesn't wanna risk me being actually terrible, but smth like when do u have to work again? Wanna meet half an hour earlier and grab a beer?

Hm... What do u think?

Vapor · #4 (**permalink**) 05-28-2008, 09:52 AM

You usually need at least 15 minutes to get a reliable #close. You aren't going to get anywhere near that while she's working a busy nightclub. She may say "Yeah, let's do that" and then not return your call.

Logistics are working against you. I would change the logistics by talking to her when she's not busy (the beginning of the night), or where she's not working (find out what spots she thinks are cool), or I would take my chances with direct game.

toni79 · #5 (**permalink**) 05-28-2008, 10:08 AM

All good points and I'll probably follow the advice, thanks.

Any other thoughts guys?

silversixone · #6 (**permalink**) 05-29-2008, 08:21 AM

I wouldn’t ask her to have a beer with you before work. Tending a busy bar is hard work, and it’s harder if you’ve been drinking.

Check this out: http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/wha...-are-good-for/

And this: http://realitymethod.com/2007/03/how...om-nightclubs/

Good information there.

Silver

toni79 · #7 (**permalink**) 05-29-2008, 09:09 AM

This is awesome for the situation and for in general, thanks!!!

stellar87 · #8 (**permalink**) 05-30-2008, 05:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by silversixone

I wouldn’t ask her to have a beer with you before work. Tending a busy bar is hard work, and it’s harder if you’ve been drinking.

Check this out: http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/wha...-are-good-for/

And this: http://realitymethod.com/2007/03/how...om-nightclubs/

Good information there.

Silver

that is a good point, not to mention if the owner of the club has a strict no drinking policy, which is rare, since my friend brad, my dad and mom worked or currently work at a bar and they never heard of that rule