Stripper Mentality

[prolonz]

this is my story i am living with a dancer i think the word stripper is cheap and demeaning. she is the most sought after dancer at the club and we hit it of realy well in a patron kind of way i never got any dances or anything from her hell i wasnt even looking for a relationship but before long we started seeing each other she was living with a guy she knew from cuba but wanted to be with me and we dicided to try it out the guy turned out to be a nut job beating her up and stalking her and me but he never approached me lucky for him.it turned out she was looney she would call me all day long from the club to see if i was cheating on her she made my life hell i finaly told her one day to leave and she did then two days later came the crying phone calls and i agreed to try it one more time she's become more of a pot head and more possesive i asked her to leave and shes been packed for a week and hasnt left i wish she would i will never date another dancer their not all bad but its like winning the lottery

[VeraLynn]

Stellar and Wilderbeast:

Thank you for standing up for those of us who are deserving. When I trust someone enough to tell them that I'm a dancer, most are surprised. "You do WHAT? I would have never guessed!"

I don't trust everyone with that information. Too many guys are "REALLY? I have a dollar!" (I'm not at work right now doofus! Stop waving the dollar at me and treat me like I'm normal again please!) or women suddenly don't want to be anywhere near me or start talking trash behind my back regarding what they think they know about every stripper in the world ever. It's not fun.

Our wedding is still on for June 2009. It was originally supposed to be September 2008, but with my fiance's work schedule right now, that would have been difficult. We both agreed to move it back some. I want an outdoor wedding, so it needed to be warm here in New England. I get cold easily, having only enough body fat to be in the "right places" according to most men. So early June it is!

[wilderbeast]

I wish you the best of luck with your marriage. Marriage is never easy, but from experience, I know being married to an exotic dancer adds extra complication factors. I'm sure you'll do fine! Enjoy!