I was going to put this in the Field Reports section but that's not really what this is about. It did happen one night at a strip bar but there's more to it then just recapping what happened.
Last Sunday out of the Blue a friend of mine stopped over. We're pretty much best friends and use to hang out all the time. But since he got married he don't hang out near as often. Anyway he asked if I was busy for the next few days because a relative in Kansas is very sick and he's driving there to visit and asked if I'd ride along for the 12 hour drive. I had no real plans so I went.
We took our time to get there. Stayed at a hotel when it got dark and once settled in our room we looked for a bar to go to. Being Monday we didn't expect to find much happening. But then we found an exotic dancer bar called
Beach Girls (Very nice stripper bar by the way and the girls really are higher class then in most places. Go to their site, enter and see some pictures of them.). One strange thing about this place is that they don't serve booze but you can bring your own (I never heard of this before). So I got a six pack and we went. This is were things got interesting.
Now I haven't been to a stripper bar with this friend in a couple of years. He knew nothing of the PUA techniques I've been learning. I didn't tell him this but I thought it would be interesting to see what happens. I mean he'll do things the way he always did but I'll handle things differently with some of the things I've learned in here and in MB and the other books. In my mind I looked at is as a sort of contest.
I already knew what he would do because it's what he always does at a strip bar. Sits in the seats to get the best view of the dancer on stage. Make comments about the girls and basically look overly interested. In other words do AFC things. I on the other hand paid no attention to the dancers. I was acting as if being there was no big deal to me.
It got interesting when 4 girls came up to my friend asking if he wanted a lap dance. But NONE OF THEM ASKED ME! I thought this was great because they viewed him as "money". I eventually had one girl ask me and I turned her down and made a few joking comments. I got some laughs but turned her down.
Later my friend took up an offer and went into the back room for the private dance. While he was gone I spent my time meeting and joking around with people. I started with the group sitting next to me. Then talked to the guys who work there as security. Then to some of the dancers. In other words I was meeting people while my friend was back there getting the dance.
He came back and told me it was the best private dances he's ever had and even had a little blowjob and fingering action. He got another dance with another girl and I went about talking to people, doing magic and had a crowd gathered around me when he came back. While talking about how I'm from Michigan a couple of the girls gave me her number and Email. Another asked for my autograph. They brought the owner of the place out to meet me. When we finally left I had so many people give me a farewell with pats on the back, hand shakes and hugs. One girl fallowed us out to the parking lot and got a more then friendly kiss while leaning against the wall of the building. She told me that if I come back again to Email her and she'll show me around and go out.
When we got in the car my friend was telling me about how the second dance was even better. It turns out he used the tactic is offering more and more money to get the girl to do more things.
Here's the recap of the night. I spent Absolutely no money in the place besides getting in the door. Didn't even have to buy drinks because I brought my own. I didn't give a dollar or anything to the dancers. But I left a very popular person. Just about everyone there either meet me or saw me. Even the owner of the place. I made out a little and got some Email addresses and invites to go out next time.
My friend got a "partial blowjob and hand job". No phone numbers and made no "friends" or anyone he might be able to look up if we ever head that way again. While it's true I didn't get any real "Sex". I couldn't even bring them to our hotel room because we had already had a long drive and had another long drive the next morning. But what he got cost him over $200 ($100 on each of the private dances and close to $50 in ones for the dancers on stage.
What do you think? Who won this little contest?
(Keep in mind he wasn't thinking in contest terms. I just wanted to see how the end results would compare to his "I'm horny and have money to spend on your" way and my more PUA way).
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AFC and PUA contest in Stripper bar 
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