AFC and PUA contest in Stripper bar - Page 2 - The Attraction Forums

Possum · #11 (**permalink**) 04-27-2008, 03:02 PM

Also, it's funny that you mentioned DejaVu, the one out here has a bar next door to it owned by Strip club owner. How's that for a loophole?

MagicJax · #12 (**permalink**) 04-28-2008, 11:00 AM

Same here. One building has two stripper bars. DejaVu and the other is called Little Darlings.

Fader · #13 (**permalink**) 04-28-2008, 01:53 PM

Who cares? It sounds like you are seeking validation from an internet messageboard.

manbehindthecurtain · #14 (**permalink**) 04-28-2008, 02:06 PM

in my book any boost to a man's self esteem is going to help his game...

or were you referring to the inane posts about the locations of other bars that have nothing to do with game?

in which case, yes, those were pointless.

MagicJax · #15 (**permalink**) 04-28-2008, 05:55 PM

I hope I didn't come across that way. I actually thought it was interesting. I know that the last time I went to stripper bar with this friend I did the same kinds of things he did that night. And I had to either turn down or accept offer s for lap and private dances all night. Now I rarely got any but I honestly had a better time ignoring the dancers on stage. My time was better spent on the side line were the employees and other people who were obviuosly regulars to the venue.

one other thing that I didn't think about too much at the time but looking back I realize the significance of it. Some of the girls were treating my like "A regular" after a few minutes. Not really treating me like a customer. one of the girls was talking to me and she spread her legs not in a sensual way but to show me that she burned herself on the bar and had a long red mark from it. The point is she opened up to me as if she wasn't even working. Just talking to someone she knows.

I'm not sure if I explained that well enough to say what I mean but it's a little example of how I was "in" to some degree. Another thing I'm proud of myself is I didn't do all that much magic this time. I did some and a crowd did gather and that brought me a lot of attention. But I didn't keep at it like I use to. Once I was in I broke away from the magic and just started to shoot the shit with them so to speak.

Anyway, I do feel I learned a few things that night. More attention from the dancers doesn't necessarily mean your game is strong. In this venue I think that's pretty much the opposite. It's the kind to attention and the quality of it.