This is how to make strippers stop seeing you as a client

Kiwi Maori · #1 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 10:40 AM

This is my first thread. Ok - I'm from London, just discovered books like "The Game" etc but not entirely new to it as I am a natural. Since I was 19 I've been picking up strippers, and have countless different closes, but there is always this one thing that is important to ensure success. It works all the time for me. That is to ensure that the stripper never sees you as a client and that you never see her as a stripper. It's not hard as one might think. I've had strippers for girlfriends, still pick them up, they are just special to me, so it's become a habit for me. A bad habit - I just frequent strip clubs all the time, long and often enough to know how to do it. I want to share this with you. I'll try my best to explain how I did it and hope you come up with success stories.

Let me be clear - the strippers that I pickup are NOT the sleazy ones. Since I'm in London, I go to world class places like Stringfellow's (they don't have Stringfellows in the states but check out their website, you'll see how classy they are). Spearmint Rhino is another one. The real proper stuff. So if my methods work on these places, then it oughta work in sleazy places. I hit on 10-11 type of strippers, never less. This method works on them very well.

*I see the stripper I like, and wave her to come over to the bar*

Me: Hi. How the girls dress in here is important to me, it portrays how they want to be that person as a fantasy. You dress better than them. So in my eyes you're more fantastical than them. More exciting, experimenting, spontaneous, adventureous. Are these your qualities?
Stripper: Wow, thanks that's nice! You're right, this is the fantasy me! *giggles*
Me: So what's your name?
Stripper: Paris
Me: It goes well with your cute face *rubs her cheek lightly* But that isn't your real name, isn't it? *smiles and raises eyebrow*
Stripper: No it isn't... It's Emma! What's yours...?
Me: My name is <realname>, I'm really interested in Emma not Paris.
Stripper: Really? *begins to loosen down* Why?
Me: Well, it's just that when I look at you as a stripper, the only thing I think of is, what are you normally like in everyday life? The real you? The very person who thought up of this fantastical Paris that you are...?
Stripper: Wow, that's interesting! Is there anything you want to know about Emma?
Me: Anything that isn't Paris.

She knows I'm interested in the real her. Then I tell her more about me. From that point on, I and her spoke as if she wasn't a stripper and I wasn't a client. When the stripper-client barrier is broken down, I would say that I had to leave to meet a friend, and I would say something like -

Me: "It's a shame we didn't meet outside of here, it could've been different. I'd be a person not a client. I would leave here wondering if you would have been truly interested in me outside of here..."
Stripper: "No actually I'm interested! We can meet outside here if you want?"
Me: "I know that you aren't normally allowed to exhange numbers so I'll pretend to pay you for a dance, we go to a private spot, I'll give you a pen to write your number on the money (a £20 note) and give it back to me and I'll leave."
Stripper: "Good idea." *we head for the spot to get her number and I leave*

So it's a good idea to always follow the rule that forces you and your target not to relate as client-stripper. Break that. You're in.

About dances - you need to never to have dances as a golden rule. Trust me. You need to make it look like you are not there for dances, but there for the girls themselves. If you have a dance, you'll be automatically considered as "one of the desperate/sleazy men". If you go into a strip club and do everything the opposite, you'll appear interesting and different to the "rest of them" and the girls will behind your back "talk about how to get you to crack and have a dance". Competition amongst them starts. You see where I'm going...?

spifflove · #2 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 10:56 AM

Most strippers won't give their real name, although you seem to have a different experience. I will test your method though.

Kiwi Maori · #3 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 12:22 PM

It is NOT important AT ALL whether if their names are real or not - what matters is that they know you are interested in "the other her", the "real her". Strippers hate guys who hope that they are like the people they pretended to be. If they discover that you "go for them" because of their "fake personalities" then they would ditch you. This is because I have found that every stripper I am with, in real life, are COMPLETELY different to their fantastical characters.

chris3 · #4 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 02:09 PM

wicked post. Please keep them comeing

torontonian · #5 (**permalink**) 02-27-2008, 10:03 PM

I am not so sure. I have gotten as close to a stripper as possible. It's not so easy to enter their outside life and don't tell me that a few sugar-coated words will get them. They IMHO have seen 'em all. But you have succeeded, dbl thums up 2 u.

spifflove · #6 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Kiwi Maori

It is NOT important AT ALL whether if their names are real or not - what matters is that they know you are interested in "the other her", the "real her". Strippers hate guys who hope that they are like the people they pretended to be. If they discover that you "go for them" because of their "fake personalities" then they would ditch you. This is because I have found that every stripper I am with, in real life, are COMPLETELY different to their fantastical characters.

So what do you say if they say "I never give out my real name, sorry."?

Kiwi Maori · #7 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 10:26 AM

Well, all I outlined was simply that if you wanted to hit on a stripper, then the client-stripper barrier must be broken. Once it is, you must then apply any method like the Mystery Method thereafter. Or any other. If you don't succeed then you messed up. Get the barrier broken doesn't mean that you've pulled. It's just the first step.

I have other advice as to when the barrier's broken, and then it messes up, the barrier returns. For example when the barrier's broken, you and the stripper talk for a bit, and she is somehow not impressed and then says "Do you want a dance?". You are seen as a client again. What I say is -

"Oh, sorry, I thought you didn't see me as a client. I thought you were genuine. Sorry, I am mistaken. Excuse me, it's best that you return to work, I am keeping you. Maybe there is someone else who is single and genuine. I'll find that girl, but it was nice chatting with you."

After saying that, they stammer and "re-realise" that you are "for real" and will stay and apologise for asking you for a dance, and be herself once more again. It works for me. It's easy to get trapped when they ask you for a dance, I know. There are ways out of it. Like -

Stripper: "Do you want a dance?"
You: "Ah, I'm not here for dances"
Stripper: "Why are you here then?"
You: "You see, I think it's about time that strippers have a genuine man in here for different reasons."
Stripper: "And what reason might that be?"
You: "Well, when I look at you, I don't see you as a stripper. I want to see you as if I saw you outside of here. And I want a stripper who won't see me as a client. You know what? I've met alot of dancers like you and have gotten into each other's lives outside of work and I find them the most interesting girls. They're more daring. A quality I like. So what qualities you like in a man?"

Something like that. You need to sound intuitive. Make you seem REALLY different to all the men who have ever walked into strip clubs. I want others to succeed. I have ensured success with my friends, he goes home with 3-4 number-closes every strip club trip. And they have kept in touch outside of work with him. To bed them is something else. I will get into that later, it's not as hard really.

Kiwi Maori · #8 (**permalink**) 02-28-2008, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by spifflove

So what do you say if they say "I never give out my real name, sorry."?

Stripper: "I never give out my real name, sorry"
You: "Ok dont worry/I won't give you my name then. How the girls dress in here is important to me, it portrays how they want to be that person as a fantasy. You dress better than them. So in my eyes you're more fantastical than them. More exciting, experimenting, spontaneous, adventureous. Are these your qualities?"

Just move on from the subject and carry on. That's what I'd do. Be creative.

slim_chance · #9 (**permalink**) 02-29-2008, 03:56 AM

Kiwi Maori from reading your posts i can tell right away your a natural, thanks for the good tips. And keep them coming bro.

Kiwi Maori · #10 (**permalink**) 03-01-2008, 11:41 AM

Thanks slim_chance! I hope it works out for you. Look guys, if you have anything to ask, just fire away! I WANT to help! Here look at my other thread about how to drag (or number close) 4 strippers in 20 mins! How to pull FOUR strippers and get them out of a strip club in 20 mins.