lap dance

[Soho Soho]

any good lines for when the strippers offer those>?

[Pefifos]

"i'm not in the mood" or something like it, and then she will sit by your side, and start to talk with you.
and in the talk you can neg her, and start to play normally

[Amplify]

Or you could start off with a neg by saying something like "wow, you just cut straight to the chase don't you?"

Aside from that though, a polite "I just got here, but maybe later" is always a safe bet.

[stellar87]

Originally Posted by Pefifos

"i'm not in the mood" or something like it, and then she will sit by your side, and start to talk with you.
and in the talk you can neg her, and start to play normally

i tried that, both the dancers that tried to sit on me left to their corner and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night

[sdnightfly]

Never at a place that plays 3 songs in 3 minutes.

The ones who try to go for it right away, I'll either ignore or tell them maybe later. If they're back too soon, I'll tell them not yet, or probably not, I'm enjoying the show, but thanks.

There's always 1 or 2 that aren't the hottest in the place or get the most money, but they're the most fun to talk to, and see the place as a quick way to make money. It winds up being like any other girl you met randomly... not pushing you into going into the VIP room, but she wouldn't say no to it, after all, money is money.

Considering it's the profession of millions of women, all types work in that field.

There have been places I got a bad vibe from, there was just this feeling of desperation and I left.

[Nicknock]

Originally Posted by stellar87

i tried that, both the dancers that tried to sit on me left to their corner and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night

You can't let that stop you though, these girls are working, some guys don't get that. They are they to make money...maybe if they made enough they will come chat...but some girls need enough to pay that electric bill....or debt to their dealer

[ryancn77]

wow, not even gunna ask my name first?. when she askes it tell her she has to earn it.this wil get her to get a small laph andshe willsit down to talk atleast for a min.

[stellar87]

Originally Posted by Nicknock

You can't let that stop you though, these girls are working, some guys don't get that. They are they to make money...maybe if they made enough they will come chat...but some girls need enough to pay that electric bill....or debt to their dealer

lol, like a pencil, you have a point there. but hey, some get more greedy like most girls that are absolutely perfect like the one night i was mentioning, she started to talk to me normally or so i think, but hey i broke through, like i said i think. her great looking friend, while we were talking, came up and just sat on my lap, i was like "woah, slow down there turbo" the friend goes "what, scared?" i said "no, just not in that mind frame tonight" she said to the one that i was talking to "he just scared of one girl on him" she said while sitting on her lap :Uggh: "what about 2 girls?" i stated "nah just not there tonight" she and her friend got up and went to the corner and tried to get me to get some homies there, i said i'd try, but i really didn't, yet looked like it though.

[Kahuna Cowboy]

If you really want to hold a meaningful conversation with a stripper don't go in on a Thursday, Friday, or Saturday night. These are the big money nights and they are busy. Daytime is much better, especially on a weekday. You won't get that as much of the "want a dance merry-go-round" and you can run better game because she will have more time to pay attention and talk.

As for a line, I have used "I'll hold off on that until I see you up on a stage to get a good look at what I am investing in."

[stellar87]

that is correct daytime is the better time, but usually that is when the ugly ones dance, the times i went were on monday, wednesday and thursday but thursday was a "for fun" day, no chatting, but i did run into a cocktail waitress that actually used to cut my hair for 3 months prior to this job, which was damn cool. and i am going to say she was a hot 30yr old hair stylist she looked damn good in a cocktail dress. if i get a day where she works and i can hold convo, i coulda got her number, which was stupid since i coulda got it when she cut my hair before this