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Night Shift · #1 (**permalink**) 10-28-2007, 11:45 AM

Last week me and some buddies went to the strippers and I eneded up gettin a dance from one of the girls.....Random chit chat occured and i told her i was from Newfoundland and she began askin me questions about the place cuz she was thinkin of goin there to work. She asked what the strip bars are like and i said "i dunno i wasn't old enough to go when i lived there." She asked my age and i said 21 to which she replied "o your just a baby." i said "i won't ask your age." and she jsut told me she was 30.

So I made a statement and got an answer. Isn't that an IOI?

She made some comment about the no touching rule 9 ( i was being a gentleman ) and i said some girls don't follow that to well. She said it was her first time dancin there and wasn't to sure on the rules. I said i didn't come here often and that i usually went to Diamonds. She said she's dancin there next week.

After the dance i told her i felt an emotional connection and could show her that she felt it to. I said "come over to where i'm sittin later and i'll show you" to which she replied " i wannna see it now" and i agreed ( no to proud of jumping into that hoop so quickly ) so i ran the test that Mystery showed Pradeep and she was hooked. I tried the 5 questions game but she didn't get the rules and kept giving me right answers. I also tried the 93% of women line and after the first part she jumped in and said i'm one of them...IOI? She made the comment that one of the guys looked like he needed a lap dance and tried to give me a handshake goodbye to which i turned and pointed at my cheek and she complied.

As we were leaving we noticed her sittin in her car outside and gave her a wave goodbye and she opens the door and yells to me " Night Shift, are you coming to Diamonds next week?" I don't remember what i said back but it was along the lines of maybe.

So do u guys think these are fake IOI's and she wants my money or is she generally interested in talking some more?

BTW i tried the emtional connection game on a waitress one night in front of 6 friends who aren't aware of the MM and they all went dead silent and watched in aww. Huge boost of confidence.

DeadEyeDick · #2 (**permalink**) 10-28-2007, 07:43 PM

Answering a question in the context above is not an IOI. As Freud said, sometimes as cigar is just a cigar.

If you've been to strip clubs before you know that it can be a confusing place to sarge. She is interested in your cashola.

Fortunately for you, there are millions of other sarge-worthy women out there ... go meet them!

Wreckingballpaul · #3 (**permalink**) 11-11-2007, 02:10 PM

I beleive that if a girl asks for your age and your young they prolly made a mental note of you being immature or naive looking. I would suggest to make her work for the answer. As for as whenever she left she prolly is interested in a sense but nothing more than a good lay. This makes me think you had given her IOIs too soon and she claimed you lower value. Doing the routines were prolly good, the reaction she gave about the 93% question makes me think she was hinting that she just wants some sausage. In a sense everything was an IOI but like you said they were somewhat fake because she left you soon after. Whenever she left she prolly said that because she knows you want her and it never hurts to leave some options open.

bart · #4 (**permalink**) 11-12-2007, 04:38 PM

You have no traction here.

Night Shift · #5 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 10:21 AM

Have since done a follow up on said stripper

I was showing a friend "the finger trick" on a stripper that happened to be talking to us and she said that another dancer had showed her the same thing earlier in the night. I asked who and she said Jessie and I said "I showed her that last week, she's stealin my trick, go get her." She goes and brings back Jessie who gives me a hug upon seeing me. We chatted and I used some of the material i've been learning but not to the best degree. After a while she said the good ol' "do u want to go for a dance?" and I turned her down.

Later I went lookin for her for the purpose of a dance and to try some more routines. 2 birds with one stone.

I tried the number close gambit where you ask if she's creative. She gave me a smile and said "thats good, we might have a connection but theres no bond yet and thats not my area code" ( i think a good comback for that is to say "well your spending too much on long distance charges" although it didn't come to me then - opinions?) She also asked me if I read a book about this to which i replied maybe (this was tough because I had told her i read a book the previous time we met and wasn't sure of her motives) Anyways she told me where she was gonna be dancing and that I should come by again. I probably will but not gettin a dance this time to see if she's still genuinly intrested or just after my moolah.

Wreckingballpaul · #6 (**permalink**) 11-13-2007, 10:41 PM

Its sounds like she liked what you were talking about and likes that you like her but your still a AFC to her. I wouldnt try to go after her again. Cold turkey it because its sounds to me like hardcore oneitis now. Right now she is making you chase her string...dont be played. Or go after her because if you can escalate kino it may be fun to be played, and at least that will give you life experience.

Night Shift · #7 (**permalink**) 11-15-2007, 05:46 PM

oneitis is not an issue for me...i have a chick friend that i've been chasin for a year now ( sounds like oneitis ) but in my head her nor hopefully any woman is worth turning down or chasin other pussy for.
I like gamin this stripper cuz its somethin fun to do and practice on since theres already some comfort.
Note to self : escalate kino

Saint John · #8 (**permalink**) 12-03-2007, 03:31 AM

I have a lot of experience with strippers... Just remember you are gaming a professional gamer. Sounds to me like she is winning, sorry to say. She keeps asking YOU for dances and pushing you to come see her at one club or another, but always in HER professional arena, and that is always about money until it isn't...and you will know when it isn't! If there is any question in your mind whether or not she is being real with you...then she isn't! Don't blame her tho it's her job... When you have her you will know it. Trust me.
Sounds like you are not controlling the frame - if you were, she would be waiting (and hoping) for you to ask her for a dance, or to buy her a drink, and practically begging with her eyes and body language for IOI's from you. (give her very, very few because just letting her stay at your table is an IOI unto itself! NEVER ever compliment her looks!) She should be asking to participate in your DHV activities outside the club because you are the fucking man! Have you mentioned any? Do that, but be ready to back it up...
Strippers have incredibly HIGH and incredibly LOW self-esteem at the same time (both for obvious reasons). Standard game will not work here - it's all attraction, zero comfort until you are with her outside the club. Keep in mind she has easy access to every kind of guy there is. Rich. Poor. Handsome. Thuggish. Married. Single. Whatever she wants. But here's the thing...she doesn't know what she wants...she only knows what she gets...a lot of AFC's telling her how hot and wonderful she is, while at the same time disrespecting her life choices (with their eyes at least) and so she has a huge ASD up. You have to neg her way more than the average HB. Push Pull ratio has to be at least 10 - 1 to the push... Qualify, qualify, qualify... Challenge her. Label her. But make sure she understands that a bad muthafucka like you wouldn't feel at all bad about having a hot ass stripper to show off. Also there is about a 95% chance she has a BF and a 99% chance he is a total douche bag who negs the shit out of her. The good news is she's always lookin to trade up. Hope that helps... I could write about this for hours