Hey all,
Long time reader, first time poster. Wanted to join the community in a sense, as I can now join everyone that says it... but now I know..... this stuff really works.
So last monday, ended up breaking up with my LTGF. As a guys night out, we went to a big strip club in Chicago on Thurs for a laugh. The very first girl that sat next to me I didn't let her sit on my lap, just pulled up a chair and kind of complained that there weren't any hotties there that night. Threw in some more cute negs and in maybe 60 seconds already had her qualifying herself to me. It was crazy!
After a couple of minutes of this ("you and i would never get along, etc") I mentioned that I'd dated a couple of dancers in the past (which was true) and commented on how she had a good energy about her. Got a number out of her easy and said "yeah were just here to hang out, were not gonna be spending any money tonight. if you want to make some cash we'll just talk later." Got a hug and a text from her that night.
On Friday had plans to go to a rockshow and just went with some friends. Got a text out of nowhere saying that she got out of work that night and wanted to hang out. We met up at a nearby bar for a few drinks then got some BLT's at a late night dinner. I'd been priming her about my cats so after we ate it was a simple "want to meet my fat kitties??" and we were at my place. Done deal.
Anyways, just wanted to say thanks to all the great posts and information out there. It was really nice to have a win after a breakup, and the instant power of this process is really remarkable to me. I'm going to get out in the field this week and give it some more go's
