lesbian stripper

[HitmanATX]

ok... so i met this dancer at a strip club and #-close her pretty quickly... i was actually surprised that it went down so fast as she doesn't seem like the hustler type... anyway.... she'll come to my table throughout the night just to chill and talk and joke around.... i consider her an HB8... great body... very toned and smooth skin with a pretty face... anyway... so after a few conversations she non-chalantly says that she has a girlfriend who she lives with. now normally i don't really care if the girl says she has a boyfriend cuz i've been able to f-close some.... but i kinda got lost in where i should go from there... it's weird... she doesn't like to share anything with any of the girls there but will share a cigarrette with me when im smoking or drink from my straw if i have water/coke.... (byob club) anyway.... i guess i need some advise on how to get her out alone.... i was thinking about taking her and her gf out and try to threesome but she had mentioned to me that her gf is butch.... so i don't think i could get into it.


on another note... i have noticed that i attract "lesbians" alot more when i just don't acknowledge that they are lesbians... i run all the routines/negs etc i would normally do on any other girl and they react the same way... it's kinda weird but i haven't yet f-closed a lesbian... so i am gonna make that one of my goals

HitmanATX

[T. Stark]

im going to want some one here to correct me if im wrong but heres my .02 cents and I will tell you right now its not been field tested since ive joined the community however it is my personall experiance having a few lesbian friends and one bi that had a girl before me.

For one its great if you just breaze by the mention that she has a girl friend, number one your not judgeing her. Your displaying higher value because most guys want to jump all on that subject and say they can turn her or down play it and pull her up front. Dont be that guy.

Im also pretty sure she wont share drinks with other chicks because she knows how filthy women can be. Dont be fooled. 5 years of restaurant work and patronage has tought me females are far more dirty than guys.

Off the cuff I would say that this girl is bi and not a lesbian. The reason I say that is because of how comfortable she seems to be with you and the fact that her girl now is buch. If she wanted a lipstick lesbian she would have one thats as hot if not more so than she. Its really easy for her to do. Something attracts her to guyish chicks...maybe the guy part?! So dont sweat it. Just be a friend for a few seconds and deal with it. Next...

Dont be afraid to talk about it. At least im not. The lesbians im cool with, we talk about there relationships all the time. I will be honest, ive never F closed any of them, but ive gotten farther than most guys all while being overly obvious and honest about my intentions. Discussing who she is and what she is into is something were used to doing as conversationalist anyway. Just be respectfull of her like you would any other woman. She will appreciate it.

Lastly if your looking to get her out I have this to suggest. Its worked well for lesbian number closes and im sure it would to set up a day 2. Simply ask, "Are you a cool person?" Whos going to say know, if they do neg them about it and ask again in a more serious tone and you will get the truth. Secondly, "Are you worth having as a friend?" She wont BS you on that one. If those are both yes than... "why wouldnt I want to hang out with you?" Take controle of her reality and set up the day 2 from there.