i was more successful with my first hired gun that i expected to be.
she's a waitress at an upscale bar/restaurant. i approached her b/c i really dug her short hair. and it was bleached. with the roots growing out.
so my neg was easy.
i walked up and said "i really like your short hair and the color when are you gonna dye your roots?"
she was gracious and said "ya i know, i need to soon but i want to dye my hair magenta" ....she touched my hair and said she really like it......IOI?
so i told her i see the owner of her bar once in a while and that i'd tell him to let her dye her hair

she high fived me and went back to work.
i was in no hurry to # close her b/c the one thing i like about
hired guns is, you always know where to find them when you see one you like.
i returned the next night (saturday).....and i made sure to ignore her completely. i was dressed pretty nicely this time too......to the 9s
i made sure she saw me and i didn't acknowledge her i just kept acting like i was in deep conversation with my friend (wingman).
she walked by at one point and slapped my shoulder......IOI?
i waited for the right moment, then i walked past the kitchen and saw her hiding in there. so i said "well if you're gonna hide in the kitchen, we'll say goodbye thru the window"
she said she'd come out. so she comes out of the kitchen and i opened up with "well, how bout a hug at least?" so she hugs me and i say "wow, i should do a research study on hugs b/c that was like a 5" she hugs me again HARDER. hahahaha!
i then went with well, that was better. maybe we can talk outside of this noisy bar sometime? do you do coffee? she replied she's a chai girl. so i said cool and she went right for her order pad to write my number down and i whip out my cell and dial the area code and have her finish her number in my phone.
i told her i'd call her on her free days.....Sun Mon. so i'm gonna wait a bit and let her hang. then i'll call. and my plan for
phone game is not return every call of her's and to call at ODD times.
i'm pretty psyched. thanks for reading.