Getting Introduced

[Pinnacle_8]

Sup fellas. My friend, who I lift and go out with personal trains at the gym he owns. Anyways, a few weeks ago he picked up a new client who is my age and very pretty. I blew about 2 good opportunities to talk to her being the scared chode I am. Now she doesnt lift at the same time as I do and Im not sure exactly when I see her next. I brought it up to him that I had an interest in her and would like to meet her. He said that he would introduce me to her, so Id like to plan for it.

I realize that day game and meeting people within your social circle is a different beast and opening is done in a different way regarding the emotional progression model. Im not sure if im remembering correctly but I think you can skip right to comfort? Ive been studying DD, MM, and RSD so my mixed ideas are based on a couple different techniques I guess. Ill admit that I am lost and I want to plan out the interaction. Im sure that Ill be meeting her in the gym and most likely when one of us is in the middle of a workout. Im drawing blank for many ideas and any ways to build attraction by being cocky and funny. Here is my idea. Any comments are greatly appreciated.

Friend to Her: Hey (her) I wanted you to meet my friend Pinnacle
Pinnacle: Hey Ive heard a lot about you (Basically the deciding branch in the conversation tree that I need ideas)
XXX: Oh yeah whats that
Pinnacle: That your trouble, im just kidding. Comment about working out or the gym (i know the j/k is breaking the tension but i think not saying it is strange)
Her: Response
Pinnacle: So where are you from? (Move into comfort but possibly come back to transition to build rapport)

Thanks.

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[Shark Bait]

ummm...i think you'll be at a disadvantage if you are "introduced" in that manner...if you both happened to be working out at the same time and were introduced that way, then you'd be on the same level because you both came there to work out. being introduced as "you should meet my friend" kinda telegraphs interest. unless your gym friend DHVs you like crazy beforehand such as "you should meet my friend, he's an amazing pianist and is so pretty that blind people want to take pictures of him".

[Pinnacle_8]

New update. She was at the gym the other day and as I was in the cafe area she walked in hanging my by friend/trainer who was working behind the counter. I basically just stood there and didnt say anything. DUH! The only good thing was that I held solid eye contact with her when she came in. I figured I blew the chance of saying hello after 3 seconds passed.

Anyways, my friend/trainer/her trainer also said he mentioned something to her that I was interested in her. I guess this is a good way to put it, but obviously you never want to call your shots like that. I feel that him mentioning this is DHV since he owns the gym, is her trainer, 30 yrs old and im 22 and I go out to bars and clubs with him. He said that I should go to the gym when shes getting trained in the morning, get a protein shake, and chat it up. This is a ballsy move for me since I will be telegraphing my interest. I think that if i can say something clever it could be golden. Should I do that or do you think that I should just hope and wait for an instance when I run into her again like last.

[Shark Bait]

YOU SHOULD STOP OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING AND JUST DO IT.

if its ballsy, then thats good. grow some balls. you've already wasted too much time not talking to her. i think the trainer saying you might be interested is already telegraphing your interest...so just walk in there and talk. it doesn't matter if what you say is clever or not. all that matters is that you are saying something...WITH CONFIDENCE.[in tonality and body language]

stop thinking and go for it.

[Hitman47]

Dude 1st stop to try and think every dialogue u will make. It doesnt work that way. Believe me I learned it the hard way (success mechanism, first u go wrong then u correct :S sadly)

2nd gym teacher saying her ur interested in her and u holding eye contact be4 even knowing her? Let me say how I see it if a friend of mine told me a girl is interested in me and she'd hold eye contact with me without us even knowing each-other. Id say WTF? a) Is this some loser, wants to get with me without knowing me. & b) Obviously s/he is much less value then me since he's interested in me WITHOUT KNOWING ME!

3rd and last I think learning it the hard way is much more simpler, u jst have to remember, dont over analyze. Ur objecitve is not to be with HER. Ur objective is GETTING LAID or HAVING A RELATIONSHIP with a woman. Both are not related to her, so stop thinking as it is ur last chance of S&R. Go for it and if u blow it off f*ck it. ur doing this for urself not because u want her, like u appear...
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