Social circal pitfalls/game need opinions

[Irock3822]

ok this is my first post on this forum or even this site as a matter of fact.. so there may be a thread on this shit already but i didnt have time to look.. so im wondering if you guys can help me out.. ok here it goes.. ive been studying this stuff for like 5 months now and im soo into it.. im reading book watchin videos..hell even writing dow and documenting my interactions with femals (in a gaming sense) but ne way heres the thing i go to bars, clubs, social gatherings/events, partys ect.. I HAVE NOT OPENED A SINGLE SET!! by this i mean, a set of complete strangers ne way... of course i start convo with girls and groups of people at parties and stuff but everytime i enter a "cold approach" type of enviorment i find myself noticing that whatever opener or dhv stories i have planned to use, it just seems as if it would be seen as too staged and unnatural... not to mention i see more oppritunities within my social circle.. ( when they arise of course) my social circle is kinda lame well all do the same boring shit every weekend most of my freinds are willing and able to go to bars and clubs with me and ive tried to turn some of them on the the game but they either dont stick with trying to actually practice it or the dont understand fully all the elements that come with gaming soo ive given up trying to get them to practice with me... but ne way we have parties and every soo often a few clusters of HBs will come ranging from 6s to 8s and i luckily get the chance to not have to worry about opening the sets, i really just have to show up be funny, throw some negs, and DHV... which i get to do most of the time succesfully but what i notice is if i leave the set.. ( just to demonstrait my willingness to walk away) one of my AFC freinds will jump in and start doing all the wrong things like telling dhv stories that ultimatley sound like bragging, convey needeyness, IOI way to soon ect.. but it seems that they grab thes HBS attention more than me...( my fault, i know) its just im having trouble finding ways around things... like if my freind has seen an HB a few times and kinda has his eyes on her ill want to game her but then get blow out when one of my buddys walks up and starts spouting of some iggnorant immature shit that makes her laugh, totally ruining whatever attraction i may have started building.. ONE OF MY FREINDS THAT I ACTUALLY TURNED ONTO THE GAME BUT DOESNT PRACTICE OUT OF LAZYNESS ACTUALLY WALKED UP TO MY SET ( i was at about beggining of comfort/qualification getting tons of IOIs, light kino, she even isolated me) AND MY AFC FREIND CAME IN AND TOTALLY BLEW ME OUT OF MY DHV STORY... the kids got it all wrong he thinks that by using negs to whom ever my target may be is going to either piss her off or show he is not interested and therefor " staying out of my way " and it backfires and works in his favor.. but aside from that im just having a hard time figuring out how to game social circle HBS who have a high probability of coming around again.. and 2nd how i can at least build a solid enough attraction to make them somewhat curious about me more and more as they come around.. and not just getting comfortable and writing me off as " cool AFC " so they can hook up with some AMOG asshole that just happens to be there... thanx guys

IROCK