Neglected

[Ophqui]

Not sure why this seems to happen.

Imagine me: Likeable, funny guy, wouldnt say im 'nice' as such but very few people in my life have ever disliked me.

Imagine my social group: I've known all the boys for many, many years. Im 20 now and there are guys in this social group i've known since i was 5,6 years old, most i have known for at least 5 years. Its quite a typical group layout (core of 5/6 boys and a couple of girls, lots of add-ons, the whole group can top 30-35 people on occassions), all great people i get along with a vast majority very well (by which i mean i'd be comfortable one on one for a long period of time).

Sounds nice right? My question is why do i not get asked out? why do i always seem to end up sending texts 'soo whats going on tonight' 'anyone doing anyhting interesting?' etc etc.

I want people to be texting ME; 'hey ophqui, you should come out we're doing such and such.' This is a pattern i've noticed a lot over my life, i want to get it sorted, any advice?