I find it hard as hell

[SPM101]

to game girls you've been good friends with and genuinly like them. I liked a girl who was a close friend but she was taken. Also one of my best friends always shows a bit of interest. I've gotten into bodybuilding so I sent some progress pics to her and my email. She replied "Nice boi!" It's just when one of the people I genuinely like gets single or friends show more interest I tend to show them my attraction

[mindquicken]

I find it hard as well, because your behavior toward them (and theirs toward you) become fixed. My solution: you can cut contact with them for a while, and then when you meet them you'll find that you can start from a fresh slate and act however you intend to. This is also good for getting off the LJBF ladder (in case you're on it), as it resets the girl's emotional connection toward you.