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OnlineGuru · #1 (**permalink**) 06-21-2008, 03:53 PM

Last week’s OAP really resonated with me, & I’m ready to make it happen. (if you didn’t read last wk’s OAP, DO so now!)

Here’s the deal: I have a beach house on Long Island (near New York City). not a share, but a full house – it’s all mine. This makes me a value connector (i.e., I have access to a scarce resource that has tremendous value to women, esp in the hot summer months). I am also a social connector: I have a lot of dft friend groups, whom I bring together to party at my beach house.

Here’s where you come in: I’m looking for more social connectors in NYC: guys who know a lot of attractive females.

Here’s what’s in it for you: you can come party with us at my beach house all summer. This will benefit you in multiple ways: 1) you’ll get to meet other cool guys who are social connectors, 2) you’ll get to meet the women in my social circles, 3) you’ll get to meet the women the other social connectors bring to the beach house, 4) when you meet new women anywhere else, your value goes up, b/c you can automatically invite them to a great beach house for the weekend

Here’s what’s in it for me: 1) I get to meet other guys who are social connectors (that’s you!), 2) I get to meet all the women that you & other social connectors bring to my beach house, 3) it’s just plain fun to be surrounded by beautiful women at a fun beach house!

This whole thing is about mutual benefit for all: if each of us provide more women than we “consume”, then there will always be a surplus of beautiful women around us!

Info about the beach house:
- It’s near the city (in best, most easily-accessible beach from Manhattan: 45-min train ride on the LIRR)
- house is right near the beach (short walk)
- it’s got a nice big living room, & a great deck for grilling out (normally we hang out on the beach all day, then bring the girls back to my house to grill out, & mix up some drinks. Fun is had by all!)
- it’s NOT a share – it’s all mine! That means that, as long as you & I get along, you will have full use of the house, & don’t have to worry about my roommates getting in the way (b/c I HAVE no roommates!)

About you:
- all of my friends are pretty well-paid professionals (finance, lawyers, etc). to be honest, if you’re the artsy type, you’re gonna stick out like a sore thumb. White-collar professionals preferred.
- you are expected to always bring a surplus of attractive women with you to the beach house. This whole plan revolves around a basic premise: if we all bring a surplus of beautiful women to the beach house, then we will always be surrounded by beautiful women!
- you have good social skills (if you’re lacking in social skills, this isn’t gonna work)
- you’re not immature (I’m in my early 30s, & have a serious career. I’m a fun guy, don’t get me wrong, but if you’re 17 & think farting is funny, or if you’re 23 & just want to get wasted every night, then you prob won’t get along w/ my friends)
- you have interests outside of just chasing after women (i.e., possible interests: sports, pop culture, hiking/kayaking, music, quoting lines from movies like “Old School”)

When you’re at the beach house:
- Strict rules: there IS no game. We don’t discuss game. Don’t act gamey. Don’t start running gamey routines that will make you stick out like a sore thumb. Remember, social circle game ONLY: you must be subtle in your approaches! (see Magic Bullets Ch 12, on Social Circle game). If you don’t know what I’m talking about, then this isn’t for you!
- If anyone asks how you & I met, we played on a kickball team together last year.

If you’re interested:
- shoot me back a quick message, tell me a little about yourself, & tell me how I can find you on myspace and/or facebook so I can see pics & learn more about you

One more thing: Do NOT e-mail me back inviting me out to sarge! I don’t want to sarge! I want to hang out at my beach house surrounded by beautiful women! This post is about social circle game, NOT sarging!