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Old 04-06-2008, 01:29 PM
B-A-L-L-S B-A-L-L-S is offline  - Male
 
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Default Building Social Circle (mostly HBs) from scratch

I just moved to a new town where no one knows me to go to college. I'm hoping that I can 'build a life' down here the way I want it rather than accepting whatever comes my way. The first thing I'm working on is joining or forming my own social circle probably with other 'new people' who aren't already stuck in their own cliques. My friends back home are mostly guys and I want to do the opposite down here. I have no idea how to go about 'making friends' with girls. Normally, this just sort of happened every now and then. Usually, when I start talking to a girl it's pretty much an IOI because she knows why I'm interested (sex). In this case, I'm not trying to pickup anybody until I have a group of friends. However, I want my friends to be mostly HB8s or better. Is there anyone on here who has done this successfully? What things do you have to do different when making friends with high quality girls vice guys? I can't see myself babbling with all girls about shoes or gossip; do I need to start developing an interest in 'chick topics?' Any advice would be cool.
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Old 04-07-2008, 11:52 AM
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I spent several years gaming college women at UNC Chapel Hill I my mid-20’s. It was sheer madness and I got laid like crazy. Here’s what I learned:

First, what we’re really talking about is reinventing yourself. That’s why you go to college in the first place. The problem is staying congruent with a new personality. People enter college as older boys and girls and leave as young men and women. Everyone is in a state of flux, so the more congruent you are, the better you’ll do. One reason I did so well was that I was NOT in college. I knew who and what I was and I was congruent with it.

Second, having great male friends is key. You get social proof and they bring in women. Once women see your cool guy friends, they’ll want to hang out with you to meet them. So before you do anything else, find cool guy friends who are not PUA’s. This is easier and more fun than focusing on busy, overstimulated, scared women. Plus it sharpens your friend-making skills.

Third, you’re right about making friends with women. Instead of sarging, run indirect day game 24/7. Every guy in a college town runs direct game in clubs, parties and bars. You should do that too, but focus on day/street game. I got tons of lays in typical night venues, but I met and fucked far better women (and far more of them) from situational day game.

Fourth, sarging hired guns makes you look cheesy. Instead, meet and get to know as many as you can. Greet them warmly off campus, but be mellow on campus. Be friendly and cool, but keep your distance and don’t hit on them. Hired guns are key because so much socializing happens in bars. Nearly every man on campus knows every hired gun in town by sight if not by name. Every woman on campus hates/envies her for that. If women see you sarging a hired gun, you’re a dork who doesn’t understand the social situation. But if she sees hired guns sarging you, you’re a stud.

How do you get there?

Remember that a hired gun is working her way through school. No matter how hot she is, she still feels low on the scale. This is because the most desirable guys on campus refuse to be seen with her outside of a bar. She probably hates her job, her life, and anyone with more money than her. You win a hired gun’s heart by showing respect. That means being polite and by tipping. Drunk college kids are the worst bar customers in the world because they're rude and they don’t tip. So tip on each round. If she finishes a shift and you get a new waitress, close your tab with the first one and tip on the spot. If you have a beer, tip a dollar. If she gives you a free drink, tip the price of the drink. Do this with all hired guns, not just the hot ones. Show them all respect equally, and if you can’t afford to tip, stay home.

Get to the point where a hired gun loves to see you walk in because she knows there will be one man around who she can turn to for a kind word. The little sister frame works well for this.

A hired gun also sees losers get shot down every night. Most of these guys then put their beer goggles on even tighter and go for the ugliest women in the bar. When the UGs blow them out, they get even drunker and hit on the hired gun. She hates this. She knows that she got her job mostly because she’s hot, but the loser didn’t hit on her until he’d been blown out by every hog in the place. On top of that, she has to stay sober so she can earn a living while he stinks. If she sees you doing well, especially if she sees you pulling women from her bar, she’ll want you for herself. So you MUST let her see you pull women, and if you get blown out you MUST handle it gracefully.

Do these things well and hired guns will praise you behind your back, take care of you, work to get you for themselves, and socially proof you off the scale. I cannot overemphasize the importance of having hired guns on your side.

Fifth, your age is a big advantage. Focus on juniors, seniors, grad students, and women who graduated a year or two ago but are still in Athens. The younger women look up to them, so when the older ones shag you, the younger ones follow suit. Also, the older ones get far less attention, so they’re more grateful if you talk to them – it’s almost as if they have become cougars at 24. They’re more mature, more fun to be around, and horny as hell. Everyone wins.

The older ones have seen and heard all the bullshit college that guys have to offer. They’re good at spotting it and sidestepping it, so don’t be that guy. Just be cool and quiet as you get to know them and you’ll have to fight them off. This will give you the social proof you need for the youngsters.

Even then, sometimes the young ones dog each other for being with an older guy, which can cause them to shy away from you in social settings. This is nothing more than ignorance-based cockblocking. Let the young ones see you laying back in social settings. When you do talk to them, qualify hard. Focus on the older ones, then run game when you meet the young ones individually. If you’re known as a cool guy who can keep his mouth shut, you’re in.

Sixth, women in college are under a lot of stress: educational, social, being away from home for the first time, whatever. They cling to friends, and they talk CONSTANTLY. Be seen with a lot of women, but don’t talk about them. They’ll do it for you.

And keep us posted.


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Old 04-08-2008, 05:57 PM
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Hey B-A-L-L-S, do you go to UGA by any chance? I actually just moved to Athens from Atlanta a couple of months ago, so I'm in the same situation as you with building up a social circle as well. I came here in Jan., so I've had a couple months to learn the lay of the land.

I'm a little younger than you (19), but if you're up for it, I'd be willing to introduce you to some of the people I chill with, since we're in the same area and all. Hit me up with a PM if you want.
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