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[Con]

Ok give a quick opinion or advice about gaming in your social circle.
What so you believe it is the best option/what would you do?

1. Is it better to leave a small city (100000 residents) and move to a bigger one?

or

2. Stay and try to improve your game in your own social circle?

It is bugging me. Any similar experiences?

[spade_of_aces]

Learning to game in a relatively small social circle is like cracking a chuck norris joke. Dont do it.
In the process of learning and internalizing everything you need to renounce your old AFC ways, you'll fuck up. a lot. In a small social circle its also easier to be labeled as a player and get shot down before you even have a chance.

But if you plan on moving to a big city later anyways then who cares what you do now

[Renagade]

[quote]Learning to game in a relatively small social circle is like cracking a chuck norris joke. Dont do it./QUOTE]

I loled . Ditto with the question. Do you find a new social circle?

[Con]

You dont get the point.
I will be living in a small city for a while. There is nothing I can do than going out with people I know. Everyone in some way or another knows each other.

All I am asking is what is the attitude a pua has in these kind of situations.
-He turns off his pick up skills?
-He tries to rise up in the social hierarchy of his group?
-He sarges when nobody is watching?

I know for a fact that small places are the kingdoms of the NATURALS and if you don't have tight game you will be humiliated (probably by a natural).

So what is your experience in small places?

[Cedar]

Originally Posted by Con

1. Is it better to leave a small city (100000 residents) and move to a bigger one?
or
2. Stay and try to improve your game in your own social circle?

Honestly. Most people don't have the option to move to another city. But here's your advice.

Ways to become a larger fish.
1. Survive longer than any other fish in the pond.
2. Move to a smaller pond.

Move to the big city. When you're getting reasonable results, move to a smaller town. You'll be the mac daddy. And essentially explode on the scene.

[Rob9346]

Rome wasn't built in a day. Remember that.

Just because you become some king of the hill master pua, doesn't mean you fuck every girl of your heart's desires within 10 minutes of meeting her. This whole "Van Wilder" becoming-king-of-your-campus/city thing is an IDEAL.. it doesn't mean it will happen to everybody, and it need not.

Y'all have to stop acting like you gotta fuck every girl in your social circle by a certain point in time, let alone fucking them all. The point is to improve your skills, not improve your chance in catching a deadly STD or starting an unplanned pregnancy.