Cockblocks

[Stevesy]

Alright so I'm having a real tough time getting around cockblocks. I'm a senior in high school and need some help here. So my friend threw a huge New Years party and I helped plan a lot of it, invited a lot of the people, was the best dressed there (I kept getting compliments from girls and guys shaking my hand telling me I was the fucking man), and basically just walked around like I owned the place. So I'm sitting on the couch surrounded by a bunch of girls teaching them all how to blow smoke bubbles with the hooka (it was shisha so I wasn't high or anything that would fuck up my game). And I've got this one hottie hooked real good. So she's sitting next to me, her ugly friend was on the other side of her, and then her other friend sitting in a chair who called me a pimp daddy earlier. The hottie and I are about an inch away and just about to kiss when the girl in the chair pipes up and says that I should hook up with their ugly friend. Then the ugly chick pulls the hottie away from me and takes her to the bathroom and I have to explain to the chick in the chair that the ugly girl just isn't my type. I was so fucking close and am wondering what I should do next time to deal with that kind of situation. I thought I had her friend occupied with the hooka and some other people around but I guess not. Any ideas on what I did wrong?


So that happened and later on I was chilling on the hammock and this one girl came over and sat down next to me and introduced herself. I built attraction with her like a mother fucker then am about half-way through comfort with kino escalation and everything all throughout the night. Then later on that night we are chilling on the stairs inside and her boyfriend was there that night but my friend took care of him and was playing drinking games with him outside (I know her boyfriend was there but she was giving me major IOIs and kept finding me again and again to hang out and talk). But then this one drunk kid upstairs is making a racket and so my other friend saw what was going on and tried to subdue him (he's a great fucking friend). So me and the girl are chilling on the stairs when the drunk kid comes down to us and starts saying, "Dude, I'm so sorry for cockblocking you man. I feel like such an asshole its just that I'm so fucking wasted...blah blah blah." He rambled for like a minute straight and I was just fucking in shock and speechless and the girl was just like...I think I'm gonna go to bed (it was like 3:30 am). She contacted me later on facebook calling me a great entertainer and throwing in some inside jokes we made. So she is still definitely interested. What should I have done in reaction to that drunk kid cockblocking me?

Any help with these situations would be greatly appreciated.

[jsaligeri]

Great stories. Sad to hear you got cockblocked.

Unfortunately, given your age, and where you were at, the atmosphere, you will come across a bunch of idiots who will no doubt cock block you no matter what. It comes with the territory. Being good with women, will drive both guys and girls to cock block you from hitting heir friend (in case of girls) for reasons that are pages to write about and for guys, jealousy. (well in both cases #1 reason). But women are more 'feelings' oriented when it comes to being cock-blockers.

I have come across them by the bushels, but given my age, it is easier for me to just go up to whoever is attempting to cock block me and set them straight from the get go.

Here is my advice,

At a party where practically everyone is getting drunk and at such a young age, well, you can do either one of the following. A) realize your surroundings and be ready to put up with that type of behaviour or b) Move away from that type of surroundings. Move to a place where there is less traffic. (ie:don't sit at the stairs).

If you are a non-confrontational person then you need to be away from the action. If you are a confrontational person and not shy about calling peoples shit. Then you need to step up the bat and call people on their bullshit. Otherwise, you will never be respected. (goes without saying, by no means i am telling you pick a fight. NEVER EVER PICK A FIGHT OVER A GIRL).

But you gotta have some balls and stand your ground and let the guy/girl know that she is messing with your world and to take a chill pill and to go their merry way.

Hope this makes sense.

Roberto.