You Want to Go to More Parties??! Social Circle (COLLEGE/HIGH SCHOOL)

[pistyll]

Social Circle:

Communication
-Greet everybody be nice to everybody. This also means getting everybody’s number, friending them on facebook and getting their screen name. Treat everyone as if you have known them forever, and just have a hell of a time with them and stuff. But if there is someone that is with you that is negative all you have to do is bust on them for being negative and they will eventually leave or become positive. You want to be the guy that’s always up to do anything and is known as fun to hang out with.

-After you have their numbers, sn, or friend with them on facebook, never stay out of contact with them and always be nice.
For example if you see them that night or you go out with them but you loose them just post a simple “yo, wat u do last night” on their wall. This gets them to think that your a nice guy who’s interested in them as a friend ect. Even if you hadnt seen them that night you can just say "how you been". You can also make something up like “i saw a girl that looked exactly like you the other day and i ran behind her and grabbed her waist and she turned around and it wasnt you! it was fukin hilarious.”.

-All of this social networking will give you a vast number of friends and will also act as a huge DHV. First you will get invited to way more parties. Secondly you will be at a party and everyone will see that you know a bunch of people there because you are greeting everyone loud and enthusiastically.-

-When women see that you know other people they trust you more because they say to themselves...."All of these people trust this kid and like him, i want to meet him." You also never know when you will need that friend or you never know when that friend will hook you up with one of her hot friends.

-Whenever you meet a girl or someone else, ALWAYS introduce them to all you friends. After you have done this ask them to introduce you to your friends.

Being Remembered
-This all has to do with just having a smile on you face and acting like your having the time of your life. This will make other people curious and want to know what’s happening and want in on it. Remember that quote “the grass “the grass is always greener on the other side”. That’s what you count on along with intrigue.

-Always be unique even if its outrageous. You want to be remembered for being crazy, spontaneous, smooth and funny. Be the one that crosses the line, the people that think its funny are the people that don’t take themselves to serious. These are the people that you want to align yourself with.

-Always look to stir up emotions in girls, even if they aren’t great! Its better to tease the hell out of a negative girl and have her saying “I fucking hate you!” in a angry but semi teasing fashion than just being chill and not having her notice you. You can change these emotions once you get the emotions you can always change them. A good way to tell if a girl that you are teasing is really pissed or not is to switch to being nice or just not teasing her and see if she starts being chill.


well there it is... the keys to getting a big social circle and getting invited to a buncha parties... from some1 who had been at 5 different schools in the last 6 years...

[sidegunner]

One of the things I learned after a long time is to never ask people "what's up" or "how have you been". People want something to latch onto in a conversation and this puts the onus on them to entertain you, basically. I prefer, when I'm talking to friends and people I have just met, to say something like "I just met someone who has the exact same birthday as me. That isn't too uncommon, but how weird is it to actually find out that you share the same birthday? That type of stuff doesn't come up often in a conversation." This is loaded with conversational hooks. People will laugh, have a great time, tell stories, etc., and importantly, they will not think of you as a boring guy.

Even something like "I found a nickel on the ground today. Isn't that weird!" is better, I think, than "hey man, sup?". Tell soon-to-be-friends things like this when you meet them and they will always pick up your calls and won't feel annoyed when you ask them if they're going out that night.

[pistyll]

true true... i was trying to cover everything by generalizing... heres something more detailed..
FACEBOOK/MYSPACE POSTS:

small vague questions
these lead them to answer wit long posts that can be responded to
example:
i saw my friend going into a bathroom the night before wit a girl and only a blanket (clearly naked underneatH)....
i posted: have fun last night??? haha

Inside Jokes
example:
next time im at *XXX college*
u bring the guitar ill bring the brass knuckles to fend off cock blockers

Being Playful:
heres another example: (she left cause she had a track meet the next morn so i thought i would bust on her)
hey hb8. remember that night when u ditched us? haha. u should have stayed. u missed a hell of a time

[NumbaOneDesi]

Originally Posted by sidegunner

One of the things I learned after a long time is to never ask people "what's up" or "how have you been". People want something to latch onto in a conversation and this puts the onus on them to entertain you, basically. I prefer, when I'm talking to friends and people I have just met, to say something like "I just met someone who has the exact same birthday as me. That isn't too uncommon, but how weird is it to actually find out that you share the same birthday? That type of stuff doesn't come up often in a conversation." This is loaded with conversational hooks. People will laugh, have a great time, tell stories, etc., and importantly, they will not think of you as a boring guy.

Even something like "I found a nickel on the ground today. Isn't that weird!" is better, I think, than "hey man, sup?". Tell soon-to-be-friends things like this when you meet them and they will always pick up your calls and won't feel annoyed when you ask them if they're going out that night.

complete truth

texting people with "whats up" is annoying to them