Cumfert. you dig it?

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i'm a highschool student so leave now or continue by your own risk!! I personally have a problem talking to gurls, mainly with comfort. I can't find out things about their personal lives. I don't meann what school they go to i mean dramass. You know how gurls tell each other stuff thats goin on. i wanna be that person that gurls come to for support and in that way they'll begin to like me. i wanna be able to give advice and have them want me there for themselves. these are the things i can't find out. i make it look obvious. my buddy who is great with gurls and lots of gurls like him says i should say things like, "hows school/work? how are you doing/ how's it goin?" i see where he's coming from it makes sense but i still need tips on what to say, how to come across, tone of voice and etc etc. i don't care if it's a link to another thread, good/bad advice or some guy wasting his time by laughing at me. LOOKING foreward to the comments and keep reading these if you're someone who truly wants to help me with your help i can get far! SO THANKS IN ADVANCE MATES

P.S: my buddy is a natural with gurls our age... 16... i'm a natural with gurls OLDERRRR than me... like 25, he's jealous of that i'm jealous of him.