school game

[nighle]

it has happened several times now that i game a girl at school just the same as if i was in a bar or pub, = a1 a2 a3 and i throw 1 confort routine, i # close, chat a while, i can tell ive been doing good..........then i come back the next day and they are completelly cold with me.....no hello, no nothing....some even start avoiding me. This is something that happens only when i run game in school with people outside my circle of friends but it has happened several times, exactly the same way.........any ideas?

[L Duke]

I dont like school game b/c there are too many distractions and you gotta listen to the lesson.

i come back the next day and they are completelly cold with me.....no hello, no nothing....some even start avoiding me.

It could be anything -not enough comfort/ attraction, talking about sexual things too early, you creeped her out, body lagnuage...etc

post what you did then maybe someone can help you.

peace

[Rip]

Sounds like buyer's remorse to me.
Or, you have a bad reputation at your school. Either or.

[nighle]

dunno man, looking back, since the beggining of the semester (mm...6 weeks) i have opened, a2, a3 and c1, with 9 girls in my school and it happened with every single one of them....

i get great attraction and wait for more iois than in night game, i qualify for longer than in night game, i tell her how cool\chill\intelligent\interesting i find her and start a couple of confort routines with a2 spikes.......i didnt number close the first 6 because i would have seen them the next day anyway,

however i always planted something like 4 days ahead in the future so i could invite her later on, but i always came in next day, said hi, and she was cold and acting as if nothing had happened, kind of avoiding me also.

Also i was very carefull with the kino, the most i did in the cafeteria (confort venue) was hair brushes, and brief hand holding (for emotive spikes in confort story),.

Then i have tried to number close the last 3...and i send them 1 msg telling her i enjoyed our talk earlier.....nothing, the same result..........i absolutelly have no idea what i am doing wrong.......help!

[SPM101]

Before I was a pua in training, I was desperate, low confidence, and etc and i was creepy. I can see y i was rejected and all that when i became a pua in training. It's like from the outside looking in. But anyways i was desperate to alot of girls then, and some girls i can get iois from then somebody tells them abt the person i used to be and they get all bent out of shape.

[Rip]

Originally Posted by nighle

dunno man, looking back, since the beggining of the semester (mm...6 weeks)

6 weeks is a long time - the sarge might have become stale.

Originally Posted by nighle

... i wait for more iois than in night game...

Why?
You might have some missed some IOI's --- I'm guilty of missing some now and again.

Originally Posted by nighle

.......i didnt number close the first 6 because i would have seen them the next day anyway,

This sounds like an excuse.
There really isn't an excuse for not number closing - don't be lazy!

Originally Posted by nighle

...however i always planted something like 4 days ahead in the future so i could invite her later on...

Planning with people can be risky business. Just make sure your head is where it should be - keep your head with you - and you should be fine. Don't get ahead of yourself.

Originally Posted by nighle

... i tell her how cool\chill\intelligent\interesting i find her

This may of come off to strong, or even worse as creepy.

Originally Posted by nighle

...the most i did in the cafeteria (confort venue) was hair brushes...

Creepy...

Originally Posted by nighle

... and she was cold and acting as if nothing had happened, kind of avoiding me also...

.....nothing, the same result...

She may have become frustrated with you because she gave you SO many signals that she just threw in the towel in frustration.
Her friends might have spoken against you, you might have a bad rep - the possibilities are numerous.


Best of luck
Rip

[BloodyViper]

Okay, one thing that happened to me and a former friend of mine is this:

We saw two girls, and approached.
After talking a few minutes, he just dragged one of them away (yeah, he's kinda weird).
And so, as I was isolated, I kept on running game on her.
After about half an hour, we had kissed, numbered and everything.
Alltogether we spent about 2 hours together, where I in that time had gone through all the faces, but unfortunately, there weren't any places to f-close.

What he had done on the other hand?
He had been just sitting there in 2 hours and just small talking to that chick!
She didn't like him because he "didn't move on"!


So your problem might be that you aren't going forward too fast, just too slow!

But you have to analyze this yourself of course.

[nighle]

woa....i hadnt though about that 0.o.
i will watch out for that in the future.

that said, thats not what happens in this particular case......
most repeated scenario was:

we are in a 30 min break between classes,: a1, a2, plant activity in 5 days time, isolation, a3, i statement of intent her, say i find cool whatever personality trait she has....start confort, run 1 confort rutine.....say i would love to talk to her again, tell her i want her to come with me to "planted activity" she says she would love to....i say i gotta go to class see you tomorrow (its true and she knows its true) say goodbye (she looks like she wants to keep the interaction going, is usually smiling and has that sparkly look,) i usually dont finish school at same time as everyone so i didnt see her when i get out of school....

next day i come in to school and i see her, i come to say hello.....she acts cold and avoidy (not rude or anything......just like super self concious and as if they want to run away)

keeps happening over and over again......it just doesnt make any sense at all! 0.o

[thepilot]

Allright i've got a simialiar problem here. There is a girl in one of my classes that I made random small talk on before class a couple times and said hi to her at a party or 2, but nothing major then I oneday started running game on her for like 2 classes in a row (all before class, Im failing that class and really need to pay attention) and was getting several IOIs in a row the second day and talked to her for 10 minutes before class started, thought about trying to get her number but hesitated then the professor walked by so I went into class. (I know this is very AFC) I don't sit next to her she sits by one of my friends in the class (i sit up front because of the failing thing and they sit toward the back small class though). Anyways I wanted to that was like a week and a half ago and I havent been talking to her since. I wanted to try again today and last thursday, but she usually walks into class like 10 or so minutes late and leaves right after class pretty quick and is talking to one of her other friends when she is leaving (a girl not my friend) so im not sure how to go up and start talking to her again. Anyways I want to try to get her number or something and salvage this so I want to give it one shot and if I cant salvage it just move on but i have trouble i notice pulling the trigger. im willing to move on no worries but still want to try, also dont mind if i get rejected.
Any help would be appreciated sorry the post was so long wasn't expecting to write that much. lol

[STFUnGFTOW]

Are you talking to her in anyway via the phone (texting, talking) in between classes? A cocky funny or playful text every now and then will help you maintain that momentum immensely between meetings. Savoy put together a beauty on phone game in Magic Bullets so read that, and also read Tyler Durden's archived ASF post on phone game.

I want to reiterate that going too slow rather than fast could be a problem as well. Attraction to a woman is like a balloon you can put air into, but air can also leave that balloon. Who knows what happens between you talking to her in class and the next meeting. Anyway, they don't call it FAST seduction for nothing.

I agree that it's odd that she's all cold and shit (I know exactly what you mean) the next day, and this could be bigger than you. But yeah it's rare that every girl you talk to is having a bad day the next day after talking to you.

My school game is usually I'll wait a couple of classes until the number close - mostly to reduce flakes so I can get into some light comfort and qualification. I have a lot of confidence in my attraction game so I can afford to do this, but on the other hand a good philosophy to have is ABC (stealing this from some poster on some forum I forget where though) - Always Be Closing. Be willing to get blown out. Yes, it's awkward to get blown out by someone you have to see repeatedly. I've been there. But if you're cruising through the MM model like you say you are, going for isolation and the kiss close probably isn't a bad idea - it sounds like a good risk. In fact, could she may be giving you negative marks on the social intuition for not going for the isolation? Perhaps. I know it may not be possible that very moment, but going for some type of "hang out" later that day probably is.

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