No sex because I pressure.

[russki1]

Originally Posted by sampanye

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Finally, you speak of sex as if it's a wifely-duty of hers. "Sex is off the table tonight, just relax." ?!?! By attempting to 'take away the pressure', you're actually just admitting to her how much pressure there actually is. And NO GIRL wants to feel pressured into sex. She'll start to feel that you keep her around because you like having a hole to poke. Now I'm not saying that's what YOU think, but if she feels pressured to have sex, she'll start to feel used. And feeling used is the most devastating, horrendous feeling a girl can experience.

I hate to say it, but the problem is as much with you as it is with her.

Thread that this was originaly posted on was too old.

Anyway to reverse this, I think I made my girl feel really pressured and used into giving me sex, then I talked to her why and she said she doesn't feel comfortable and made up a whole lie about the gynecologist telling her she cant have sex because of a problem downstairs. When I found out the truth that she never even went, I broke up with her.

After reading this I realize that the problem is as much mine as hers, I was pressuring her way too much, and when she didn't want to have it with me anymore I broke up with her. I broke up with her 3 days ago. Now i'm thinking if I should contact her and comfort her because now I feel it is my fault as much as hers.