couldnt get hard!! help!!

[new_guy]

i was wit a 19 year old she wanted to go back to her house. we went upstairs to her room and her dad was right outside her room on the couch.. i was kinda nervouse but managed to say "would you like to kiss me?" she said yea we made out for a while.. shes not a great kisser.. anyway i was hard for a while then her dog knocked the door open and i jumped up she shut the door and got back on me and we hooked up for a little then she started reaching for my pants.. she got the pants open and started rubbing my dick.. nothin happened.. im thinking wtf??? she keeps rubbin it.. nothing.. so she said whats the matter and i was just like i dont know and i think she felt insulted.. i managed to get out of there but i am humiliated.. she keeps texting me and she keeps saying dont worry.. i want to chill.. all that.. anyway what should i do?? and im thinking maybe i couldnt get hard cuz i was worried about her dad... what do u guys think???? thanks in advance..

the new guy

[Pilgor]

well if its never happened before i'm guessing it was because her dad was nearby which might make any guy a bit tense so try not to have any distractions next time your with her and dont let it get to you. i'm no expert with impotence but the more you think about it the worse it could get so try and relax next time man

[new_guy]

yea thats what i figured.. i asked one of my friends what he thought and he said the same thing happened to him when his g/f's parents were in the next room.. i feel a lot better now i just hope it doesnt happen again tho it really bothered me i had the worst night after that but anyway thanks for the advice and idk if it makes any difference but im also a virgin.. so if u have any advice for that?? i just feel wierd being a virgin at my age but ive heard of older ones but idk i just dont wanna be 1 anymore.. ok but thanks again

the new guy

[mrgravez]

You need to relax and clear your mind. Back when I first started having sex I was always nervous and would lose my erection. You just have to sit back and relax, and not try to over think anything, hell don't even think at all. Not being able to get an erection isn't the end of the world. The first time I was going to sleep with this girl I couldn't get it up because I was on anti-botics for bronchitis. Five days went by and when I was off the medication I gave her the ride of a life time. She did not think negatively because I couldn't get it up, it really doesn't really matter to be honest some days you're just not into it.

[Sol_Invictus]

You are not designed to remain hard when you sense a threat nearby. Your body was in fight or flight mode.

Don't start thinking that you have a problem down there or else it will become self fulfilling.

[MAG!C]

The first time I put my penis in her ass, it didn't go up.
I was so nervous, it.. it.. it just didn't

[krytek]

you don't have a problem, this shit happens.
next time just try not to care if it goes up or doesn't since putting pressure on it will
only make the problem worse.

[dhies]

Can't say I've had this problem but once.

That was my first time. I was so nervous I was literally shaking.

After that, we fucked in her house in the living room with her parents in their bedroom which is just down the hall from the living room.

She blew me in the same room while her parents where in the den and her brother was in his room which is adjacent to the living room.

Don't let getting caught worry you. If you start worrying about shyte like that, then you will get caught. Whatever you worry about tends to end up happening.

So just take everything with a stride and brush off any insecurities.

Trust me on this one. I used to be the most insecure person around. Now, hell, I'll whip out my cock just for show!